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Can I have my 13 year old take a polygraph test after accusing my husband of physical abuse in Mason County in Washington State?

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I'm at a loss, as to why you would marry someone like this. Why would you want to bring someone like this into your daughter's life? If she has learned to lie, she has learned by two experts. He's out of the house, now keep him out, until lots and lots of counciling.

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Why would you EVER do that?? Have your HUSBAND take the test for God sake. Simple.

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Can he be forced to take one to prove he is innocent? The police just told him he can't return to the house last night.
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If he is innocent he should have no problem in volunteering for a polygraph. It would not only look good but even if he failed, the fact that he chose to save the adolescent from being subjected to it would make him look good. I understand (truly) your hesitation in believing your teen, my teen wrongfully accused a young man.
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How'd you make out ?
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Do you not believe her or do you want it find to help get him locked up?

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I don't want my husband charged with child abuse if she is lying about hitting her, putting her face into the concrete, pushing her into the sliding glass door, and grabbing her hair ... Over her asking him why he called her stupid. Only his 24 year old daughter was here when it happened and she is known to lie, so does my husband.
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sounds like he is a lyer and it is in his blood
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Did you say your husband is known to lie also????
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Bunny Bread -- thats what she said and has Previouses
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You need to support your daughter regardless. Even if she is lying there's a reason for it, obviously she doesn't want to be around him. For good reason it seems, he doesn't sound like a very good person & you WILL lose your kids if you don't step up, support them & get them away from him. He's been abusive in the past do why wait around for him to do permanent damage? You will have no one to blame but yourself & to be honest, you font deserve to have your daughter with you if you're not going to protect her.
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What kind of abuse, there's many forms and kinds of abuse how ever if it's physical abuse that can be readily detected by sight and you should report it, the same goes for sexual abuse you should take your child to the hospital for a examination. If it's verbal abuse you should sit down with him and have a long talk about the psychological affects that it could cause on a child and if her persist then remove the child as well as your self. Now look at my words real close, (((why do you not believe your child and why should your child be subjected to a polygraph test?))) Isn't the child the accusing victim in this case.

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She has been known to lie before, but never about anything like this. I want something to "sink my teeth" into one way or another. He is not someone that "sits and/nor talks about the verbal vomit that comes from his mouth. His family has told him he needs to stop...but it just gets worse. He has had CPS reports against him in the past by his blood daughter and nephew. He hit his daughter around this age up side of the head rupturing her heardrum. He still dents it. Telling his nephew he needs to just get it over with and die ... And much more as you could imagine went along with that too!
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LQQK for signs of physical abuse and try to collect enough evidence as possible and take all threats and complaints seriously and I'm wishing you the best also I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a crisis.
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green --- and i would say he did it and needs to see the back of the woodshed
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I don't get if he has done all this before why you Are trying to protect him by saying you don't want him jail if your daughter is lying! Obviously she's not!!!
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Kwan how are you and you are 100% right
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and i agree and w1963bobby is the Man
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I'm doing good bobby Thanx for asking!...
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Carl thanks but your answers are just as good if not better really I'm heading over to one of yours now to green you.
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i dont know about all that and the best ones get deleted -- lol -- and you are real good in the Word/Words and the Teachings
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Thanks but I must point my finger toward heaven and say that's where all the glory belongs. Thanks again
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Word and Amen
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for what you have said its clear that your daughter isnt liying. If he is know for such behavior then ofcourse he did it. Always beleive your kids first even if they are know for liying

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GOD BLESS THE CHILD.....not the Abuser!!

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Maybe the kid is telling the truth and you arent helping to protect the child, wake up and confront you husband over this.After all maybe she is telling the truth.

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Why don't you believe your child!? Let me guess you are one of those who take your husband word over your own kid whose not your kid biological dad so you think your kid is just acting out because he/she don't like your husband!? Shame shame shame! You need your a$& beat!!

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According to your comments under others answers your husband has a previous history of abuse and is known to lie. Your daughter is seriously hurt. Call the police and CPS and get his sorry $&&@@ out of your home and start protecting your children!! please get help for your family. I'm sorry for your child :(

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Also wondering, if she is hurt that bad who do you think did this?
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I don't think she's answering any longer Pink-wish she was.
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I guess I should not be be so harsh, I got angry when I read what he did to his other child! Does mom think she hurt herself?
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