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How do I get closer to my boyfriend?

He doesn't really talk to me, he only talks to me when i talk to him. He says that he does want to be with me but he doesn't show it.

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What exactly do you mean he doesn't talk? If you are talking about feelings, that is perfectly normal for a guy. They don't generally share a lot. If you want to get him to just have a normal conversation, get to know the things he is interested in so you can talk about those. If he is into a sport learn, the basics and have him teach the rest.

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people are different this is a perfect example, he might just not know what to say or hasn't got the experience with dating. Keep him chatting, take him somewhere where he would like to be and see if that helps him talk :) get him doing something he loves and get involved, the rest is nature

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well i am his first girlfriend and my friend says that he doesn't know what to do and great advice.
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first time is always hard just stick by him as he gets more confidence :)
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Maybe he's too young. too immature. unsure of himself. SHY. You can try and bring out his true self and be with him talk about his insecurities and stuff. But yeah. hmm i understand what you're saying

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i would have to ask what is age of the couple /how long they have been dating to answer this -- so i will say -- hmm - i = initiate = and keep on and if you dont like the effort and or see that you dont think he is Worth the effort then found yourself and then you can find someone else ..

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his 16 and we've been together for like a month and a half.
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find yourself .
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Ive had this same situation. he might be really shy and scared to show it. if you give him a while and open up to him maybe he'll open up to you. talk to him alot and he'll start talking to you. he also might not know what to talk about so you gotta help him out some times lol

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Maybe hes just kind of shy

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he doesnt like u

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He might be shy.

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you need to talk to him about your feelings

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