Sounds like you and your bf are just overly stressed, he lost his mom you said like a month ago, he's going through a grieving process, it isn't something that can be "fixed" overnight. He can seek medical help like medication for depression or anxiety, plus he may want to look into some therapy or support groups. I understand you want to help him cause you care for him but one of you has to be strong now, unfortunately that's you. Your mom is torn between protecting her daughter and being jealous because you're more worried about the bf. you're only 18, it's a time where just starting out can be hard, you need to carefully evaluate whether moving out will make your lives easier or harder, you're already struggling emotionally. I think you should focus on getting your bf the help he needs.

Dakota5611: 1 year ago via Android

Thank you for the comment . It made this situation a bit better . I planed on leavin when I was 18.but its hard to . He wants me to sence he has no one ina home his mom lost her struggle in he lost his little sister an brother too days before his mom died . I feel personally movin out will get my head straight but then again idk . My minds been mentally messed up an left me in fear of everything ! . This feeling started over the sleeping pill unason (ithink its called) it lasted over 2 months straight and got a little better but it still comes an goes .my sleep schedule is messed up !! .my memory use to be on point now I cant even remember the day nor myself .i got noone to go to .

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rsarnol: 1 year ago via iPhone

Damn, I wish I knew what to say to fix this. Unfortunately life doesn't come with a reference manual. I know your in a bad place right now but im not sure if movin out is the greatest idea at this point. I can definitely understand your reasons for wanting that but I just hate to see it backfire and and make it worse. If you don't mind me asking what happened to your bf's bro and sister? That poor guy, I can't imagine. Is there any other family for either of you two that could help maybe?

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You might be suffering from anxiety disorder. It represents different forms of a type of mental illness of abnormal and pathological fear and anxiety. You are advised to visit a specialized health care giver for better diagnosis.

Dakota5611: 1 year ago via Android

My parents dont believe wat wrong wit me . My mom thinks im crazy an doesnt want me seeing a doctor nor a shrink . My 19 year old bf suffer from things like this sence he lost his mom . He tryed a sucidal attempt a week ago and its been worse on me here . I gotta get out but I dont wanna regret anything .

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You need to go see a Dr immediately! My best friend got like this, constantly having anxiety attacks, not feeling grounded, couldn't think straight, couldn't leave the house etc. . . for months and months. She finally went to the Dr and got diagnosed with severe Anxiety disorder, agoraphobia and OCD. She was put on meds, it took a few months to get in high enough levels to make her feel lots better and, after a few tweaks (switching to different medications) she finally felt normal again. She's back to working again and everything. She has to keep taking the meds, and can't stop or the symptoms will return, but as long as she feels fine she can't see a reason to stop.

Go to the Dr. Do it sooner than later. The faster you get some help, the better you'll feel.

I don't really understand your question "is there an easier way to leave my house" because your 18 and an adult so you can leave and I'm not saying that's the right choice because i don't know the situation you are in but you can leave

Dakota5611: 1 year ago via Android

It sums up the feeling I get . I whent to ask too questions . But my situation is I wanna get out of my house im 18 I have a twin sister an a mom I live with . I been having BAD anexity ! . An my bf suffers from it too sence his mom died from colon cancer.a month from today . Hes 19 an tryed a sucidal attempt right infront of me . Its werid's sence we are together my feeling eases , my mom doesnt understand me shes soo negitive an makes me feel so much worse .i wanna get out of this house an live wit my bf an help him out for a bit . But idk how to leave I had my good times here like 2days out of the week . But thibgs are getting too me an I cant handle then . Any advise ?

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