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What can I do to make my boyfriend trust me?

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Be honest to gain trust,not only with your boyfriend but with all people around you and before that be honest with your self so u can be honest with others !

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and I am honest to hem but he always thinks am goin to cheat on him like he's ex did to him,
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well we can say in this cause you have to be always beside him and try to be every thing to him his friend,sister and mother even, just try to be closer as you can,to find out what you have to do to gain his trust.Remember that simple words or feeling could changes the person spically if that person was your BF/GF .
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Sa90, great answer and comment.
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thanks Rathkeale i appreciate it
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Cant MAKE him trust you, just dont give him any reasons NOT to trust you

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' I try my best for him to trust me but he always thinks am goin to cheat on hem like he's ex did to hem like alot of times :/
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be honest, and let the truth attend to itself

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Possible ways to build trust are through open communication and following through with promises. Also,Make sure your words match the message. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Good luck!

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thanks!
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You're welcome & good luck :)
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Stay with him at all times. If he's protective of you, be protective of him. It's a two-way street. Obviously, avoid the advances of other men. I've had two girlfriends who have used their paranoia as an excuse to cheat. Both wanted a long-term relationship, but thinking they could get away with that means they were both scum to kick to the curb. I'm almost 30 and I've never even thought about cheating on partner, so never make assumptions about a guy unless you want to end up another cheating, Judas loser.

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I never cheated on hem and u will never do! but he's exs did like most of the time, do u think he might think am like that too? :/
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It's always possible, yes. Once bitten, twice shy. The more often somebody you trusts betrays you, the harder it's going to be to trust again. Give him the benefit of the doubt. If he's overprotective, you already know why. Provided you gain and hold his trust, he'll become more flexible and trusting over time. It will take time, though, and you'll need to be patient.
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Give it time. Time heals all.

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That's call paranoid and lack of self confident. I think he feels insecure. Totally agree with many suggestions above. You need to be there for him, beside him, totally can be reach regardless, report to him every single step and most of all just focus on him. Be careful not to look at any guy even by accident. I really do mean it. You have to sacrifice most of your time and energy to earn his security and trust in you. For me I like jealousy that the guy falls into, I think make me feel blessed that I don't have to so this job. Been there, done that and it's work. ^^



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yhea but here's the thing,
he thinks am going to cheat on hem like he's ex did,
he doses not want me to go No where, talk to no one (not even girls) he even took my Facebook off & I was oky with it but he dose out and if I tell hem something he gets mad & gets me nervous, and all I want is he's trust ://
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Alright, here's the thing....how much do you love him? Mine. Oh boy! I came from very strict and protected family. Nothing can compared with my fianc. He was really jealously and always paranoid that I will leave him. I wasn't allow to go anywhere without his knowing. Either with his family members, my family members or just go to the strip mall besides my patents still a big deal. My little brother had to go and get me since he called and checked. If he has to go to work without me, he locked me up. I have no keys. The place is using an old antique European kind. Normally he the one who in charge of what I should do or else. I wasn't allow to check my emails unless I'm at my parents. He has 3 mobile phones and allow me none. The house phone got a caller i.d. in and out. Basically I have to stop every contacts to any guys who we are not related. I was accidently said thanks to a guy who allowed me to enter the hallway and he found out later on that the guy was looking at me and waiting or something in the hallway out. Almost in a big trouble. I repeated show him how much and sacrifice I invest for us. I finally earn his trust but still he told me he trust me but not others. I told you this because I want to warn you that you might lost your identity. You are the only one who aware of your nature. It's your call, I can only tell you that there are lots and lots that you have to invest....whether or not you want to put your bet on. By the way, I once told him that you put me in the cage, golden one. He laughed and said is this what you think? I told him, yes and you are the only one who got the key. He told me why do I need a key for since we go out together anyway. He's so prond of that. ^^

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Don't lie to him.

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I Never do! trust me
he's the one that lies to me
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Then he's got trust issues...not your fault. Dump him. Find an honest guy.
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Be trustworthy. If you already are and he doesn't see that, dump him. He is showing signs of controlling behaviour and that's not good for you. There are lots of guys out there.

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thanks for helping me, :)
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