My 82 year old dad in a serious car accident. After broken neck and broken back surgery, they want to put him in a nursing home. See below.
He was in ICU and wasn't supposed to make it through surgery but he did. The ICU in the hospital had him eating on his own and standing and taking steps so they moved him to a rehabilitation center which maybe got our hopes up too much. Ever since the move he is not the same but he keeps trying to live so hard but he can't do any of the things the hospital had
ad him doing and I explained that to them-because they said he was too old and sick to be there. His wife, my step-mom, was also in the wreck but she is rehabilitating pretty well-2 broken arms and is age 70. They have told her he will have to go to VA so she is making plans. Am I just seeing this wrong because he's my dad? I trust his wife very much. He's so confused and he was a systems engineer at Lockhead before. I can't sleep. I am helpless to help him. How do I deal with this?