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How does a guy ask a girl out when they are nervous?

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Nervousness is normal! Oh how simple it would be to ask someone out without being emotional or nervous. Here is the way. Pump yourself up by saying to yourself 'I deserve this person and nothing is getting in my way'. Don't over think this as you'll never get the courage once you think things over. Furthermore, spark the conversation up with her/ him and as soon as he/she is comfortable hook him/her with the question, just make sure it is only you two at that moment. Confidence is key to get the yes you deserve. Additionally, if you think you don't deserve her/ him you two will never last.

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could i ask her out via facebook
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Personally that is a bit cowardice unless they are far away from you in that case go on web cam and say it. It would be silly and you'll lose that special moment when you ask her out. It will be more memorable and a great experience if you as her out in person.
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okay thanks
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Your welcome. Cheers!
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okay
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Green Thumb...Great Answer and comments...:)
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Despite the fact that you may be nervous, act confident and try to make your body relax. Ask her out via text or email if you have not gathered enough confidence to ask her in person, the latter would be better, however. Whatever, you say, try as much as possible to avoid the use of the word "date."

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the girl that i want to ask out has a facebook page and i have a facebook page also. could i ask her out via facebook?
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Break the ice so both of you keep cool. Gain confidence in yourself and just get it over with. Don't act "too cool" and be nice. I wish you the best! >_<

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No problem! ^_-
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could i ask her via facebook?
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possibly, whichever is best for you... whichever is more comfortable for you ^_-
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Nervously ask her out, maybe she'll think it's cute

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Just ask her . She shouldn't mind even if your all sweaty and red .as long as you smell okay lol

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Welcome and what wuz your question? under the question about if it's okay to be a loner .
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would you be my gf please
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Umm well why don't we be friends first . Like get to know each other .
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It's not a no and it's not a yes
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okay. do you have acell phone?
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Yup sorry but I don't give my # to strangers or people I barley know .
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okay
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So how's it going ?
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good. how are you doing?
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Good . So what you wannt to talk about ?
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What do you like in a guy?
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Hmm that's a tough one . I would say personality like friendly , okay looking , and something unique .
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What else?
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Nothing really I prefer when there skinny , I like when there musical , and there adventurest . What do you like in a girl ?
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Cute, funny, likes to hang out and go to the movies. I judge girls by their attitudes also.
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Kool . What's your favorite movie ?
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secateriat
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Is that a horse movie cuz I think I remember seeing a trailer for that .
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yea its a true story
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Nice , I just saw war horse the movie .
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that is a good movie
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For sure but the rest of the day I felt depressed . So do you play any instruments ?
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i have played the trumpet and trumbone in middle school band and i mess with a guitar every now and then. but not any more. do you play any instruments?
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Kool .yeah I have been playing guitar and well I'm playing guitar and talking to you at the same time . I'm learning the star spangle banner from the guy gumchum on YouTube .
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What you up 2 ?
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nothing much just talking to you and reading a book for summer school
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Oh okay , your smart reading books . I'm too lazy to start my summer reading .
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i like to read books
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I gtg. C ya
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k bye
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Hey
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hey wats up
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Nothing really , just feel like talking to strangers . Wat u up 2 ?
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nothing much
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Can I ask you one question ? you might be mad
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sure you can ask me a question. why would i be mad?
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Okay well umm , How do I know that your 16 and not some 40 year old guy ?
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i'm a tenth grader in high school. and i'm not a liar i tell the truth
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Okay I'm just always worried about stuff like that when I never met them
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that's okay i can understand that. why did you think that i would get mad
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Um I don't really know maybe because I was kind of calling you a old man.
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oh okay i'm not mad at you for asking me that
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So what you want to talk about
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do you have a facebook?
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I wish , I'm not really allowed one or I can have one but I need to go over rules with my parents . I don't even know if I'm allowed an ask.com.
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oh okay
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One more question
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How would I be your gf if we live millions of miles alway ?
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idk where do you live?
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Not to far from NY
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new york! i live in new mexico
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Yeah isnt that a far plane or car ride
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idk
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Well even if its a long or short plane trip , I think it would be a long commute for even once a week .
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we could text on the cell phones
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Its funny that you mention that cuz I just dropped my phone down the stairs cuz I was reading my txts and slipped .
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did the phone break?
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Yup
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