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So my boyfriend and I are thinking of geting married
when I turn 18 or 19
because am 16 right know & he's 18 and of course he's mom does not want us to get married ..
but anyways..
do u think its a good idea?
or is it a right year cuz am a miner?

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You are the only one that knows if this is right. I met my husband when I was 16 & he was 22. we got engaged when I was 18 & married when I was 20. I am very happy with my decision and the only reason we waited until I was 20 was because we did not have the money before. If you have any real doubts(& I don't mean the "i'm scared" cold feet doubts but true reasons why you shouldnt do it) then you should wait if you feel it is right for you then do it, but do not let him push you into it when you aren't ready. :) good luck

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aww thats so cute! && my boyfriend & I have a year and almost a month, && he really loves me alot and sometimes even cry for me nd stuff && we are planning to have kids but thats another story ..
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Well its up to you hun. If you aren't sure then wait til you are. The way I see it if your love is forever then what is another couple of years before you marry? Marriage is something you need to be SURE of 100%
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I think u should wait until ur @ least 20 becuz he'll still b young @ 22 so whats the difference?

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You want to get married when u r 18 or 19 ? And you're only 16 ? Here is the advice which you won't like
Firstly you see the problem first ... A marriage according to hypocrites is union between a man and a woman only , well saying that it's a big decision of a life ,a biggest one you will make , but what I am satin is you aren't even sure , it's unsure if it's going to be at 18 or 19 not too sure ,,, see what I mean ? And when you grow up to age 18 or 19 you will be remembering how u made a plan to get married and I will then think how stupid you were back then . Most likely I won't be Witt the same guy when u r 19 , if u r u won't get married. And if both happened that marriage won't last too long . Harsh but it's true . Get back to me if I am wrong.

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Why do you think this? .. It is possible to find your permanent spouse (& true love) at 16.
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so should I wait until am older & that would let me see if we last longer?
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Absolutely , wait if your feelings are the same for the guy as you hit the maturity, once you marry you will be described differently forever , and if your marriage breaks down that's even worse . If the relationship won't work it won't work regardless married or unmarried , and if it's to work it gives you time to you n to him to make more money , savings , plans , and maturity ,
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You'll go through 5--7 different BFs between now & the time you turn 18.

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