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How can I tell a guy is really interested in me and not playing with my heart?

He seems to like me, but then he'll disappear after a few weeks he'll come back. I see him around, but it seemed like he was avoiding me. And yet I'd see him watching me sometimes too.

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You make him wait... IF he's really interested, he'll wait and not get it elsewhere.

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Just get to know him. Either way, he'll probably act like he cares about you. If he does this over a prolonged period of time, there's a good chance he's genuine.

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Well, first you'll find you will be able to naturally trust him, and that he will always go out of his way to help you. He'll always want to know if you are ok, and may be a little obsessive. He will always say I love you.

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Ht the road jack, and don'tcha come back.

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Based on his behavior, ask yourself, "Does he have my best interest in mind or does he treat me in a way that satisfies himself?"

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Flat out ask him and pay close attention to how he responds...this should give you all the information you need to know whether to pursue or be on your merry way. There's not enough time in this life to play the woulda coulda shoulda game. Not only will you get a genuine response by catching him off guard, which you will, you will also find out how he handles unexpected situations and his general demeanor and purpose.

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He wants to spend all his time with you. Doesn't flirt or go for s*x and asks you out. Makes it known he likes you and doesn't talk to many girls other than you.

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