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Why is my life so terrible?

im in 10th grade and i have no friends all my crushes have rejected me I'm incredibly lonely I only have three friends that I do not like I am socially awkward and just so sad I havnt done anything since summer and it saddens me to see all these people i associate myself with on facebook out partying and having an amazing summer while I've just been at my house and some places with my family my family is always there for me but I need friends but none of my friends are ever there for me and I feel like an outcast whenever I hang out with friends and everyone I have ever been friends with has made this worse for me...usually I'm pretty resilient but right now I just do not know people dont like me and I just don't know why..I have good hygiene I'm attractive but just dont get along with people..I guess I'm a corner kid or a loner but I don't want to be I guess I don't have a real question here so I'll just leave it

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this may seem stupid find god i don't know why but it helps alot

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AWESOME answer!!!! I LOVE it!!!!!! And NOT at all stupid!!!!!!
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it's DEEP..
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Wow
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Dude you're depressed.

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i dont think he is i think he needs to try hard and tell his family how he feels so thy can help and hey my family help my get through a million break ups and fights with friend or even to find a friend so i hope you can find a good girl and a awsome best friend wich might be that girl :)
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What kind of answer is this anyway? He already feels bad enough~
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My life was exactly the same.I never used to get along with any of my friends and I had been a loner.But since I joined ask my life's almost changed.I guess I'm really better off now.Feel like don't need anyone.I can handle myself and it worked.I was in April Ask Hall of Fame.I want nothing else now:)

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study well coz your in 10th grade..then it will attract many friends
you are not depressed..
you just need somebody to talk to...please do that..smile always..
good luck..

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Tom,you're not alone.There are other people out there who have the same life as you. Sometimes, that's just how it's but if you try to take on, appreciate and concentrate on the good in life, it makes it easier to cope with the not so good.YOLO <3

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Find yourself...
And maybe a new school

Byezbyez :D

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Hang in there mate you'll be fine, youll get new mates over time and the lady's will come too just be patient ay?

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Everyone goes through shit times, dear friend~ No ones life is totally perfect.. We make mistakes and learn from them.. :) Always smile, stay positive! Your a strong person, don't let anyone get you down!! Believe in yourself, cause if you don't, no one will, though u shouldn't care what others think, just be yourself, good luck! :)

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A lot of people start off like that. I only had one friend and only because his parents made him hang out with me. Twenty years later, I'm rather happy. I still only have about a dozen friends that I care about, but those are all very strong relationships. Some things that I did was to be quiet and listen. Everyone likes to talk, be the person to listen, and let the conversations die with you, never talk about what someone tells you. Word does get around that you can be trusted, but it flies faster if you tell a secret. Be honest. You can be evasive when dealing with others secrets (if the nail you down and demand that you give a straight answer, then you can just say no), but otherwise "brutal honesty" works. Lots of people will allow their feelings to get hurt, but that's better then them thinking that you lied to them. Read. When I was in 10th grade I read a book called "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. Every friend I have is a result of reading that book.

Good luck. Loneliness can seem crushing, but it passes.

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1. Facebook: More often than not, what you read your associates are "doing" this summer is FALSE! Kids make up things to post ALL THE TIME cuz they want people to think their lives are more exciting than they really are. Yes, I am 40, but I have teenagers and teen nieces. One in particular makes up stuff she posts on a routine basis. Seriously!!!!

2. Females: I am one, and here to say, as teenagers...we are drama. Lots of us are stupid and superficial. At that age, we don't have our heads screwed on straight.

3. A good place to make friends...You can find TRUE friends is at your church. The youth groups are usually pretty awesome places filled with wonderful teens. Its not just church and preaching. Most youth groups have planned activities for their teens.

4. If you want something to do...volunteer somewhere. The humane society, the food bank etc.. The following site is an awesome resource. http://www.volunteermatch.org/ You can make lots of new friends volunteering. An added plus is the experience and it looks great to colleges and universities...and future employers. :o)

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Volunteering is a great way of meeting others. Best of all, it makes you feel good about YOU. If you live in a city or even a small town, check with your library. If the person doesn't have the info you are seeking off the top of their head, I'm sure they will be able to help you to find the info. Volunteering doesn't cost anything and you can choose what you want to do and how much time you want to share. I hope that things change for you and remember that you can change things. Best of luck and true, nothing stays the same forever, even the loneliness you are feeling. But definitely you have to work at the changes that you want.

LET GO: LET GOD

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