You can forgive your infidel partner by choosing to let go of the resentment and the bitterness that you harbor against him/her. You can also go to a couples' therapy session where you can both share your feelings and thoughts and start your journey to forgiveness. Another way to forgive your infidel partner is by learning all you can about infidelity. Talk to your partner and find out what exactly drove him/her to committing infidelity. Lastly, you can pray and ask God to give you the grace and strength that you need in order to forgive your partner.
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It takes a strong person with a deep love of God to forgive and it takes a person with a deep love for an infidel to forgive. If you can answer yes to both questions, you will realize your answer. All the best.
You have to forgive for yourself,not them,thats what God says,its for your sanity,self preserve and,happiness,it feels so good 4giving a person BUT,not 4getting,have a smart heart and,pray 2 God,tell him,not ask,2 take your worries and problems and,take care of them 4 you,then,drop them,dont think about them nomore,let him handle it,he loves taking care of our problems,remember,4give,dont 4get,God Bless
Are you in marriage counseling? Individual counseling? Is he remorseful? Has he ended all contact with the affair person? Sent a "no contact" letter? Is the affair person was married, has her spouse been notified? Is he now transparent with his phone, passwords, whereabouts? Has he provided you with a timeline of the affair? Answered all of your questions honestly?