You need to take a look at your communication style and see where in the world it went wrong.. When you were busy saying to her, you are the love of my life, did you bother to get a response and watch her body language!? Because, not only weren't you two on the same page, you weren't even reading the same book. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Move on. I suggest next time you pay attention as much to HOW things are stated as to what is stated. Good luck.