Learn more about you. What do you like? What kind of music do you like? Not like? What makes you laugh? Look in the mirror and know that a good person is looking back. Don't be afraid to join a conversation and never worry if others agree or not, just agree with yourself.
It's actually pretty healthy and normal to be insecure about things, especially when you're young. Nobody likes a "know-it-all" and we should all be insecure enough to accept it when we are wrong about something. However, you should be secure in the wisdom of your creator for creating you the way you are. If you'll accept a relationship with your creator as your heavenly father through the free gift of the atonement of the Son of God, you'll be well on your way to being secure in your existence.
It's hard getting through insecurities, I would know, but you need to keep in mind that you are just a human being, that may be imperfect, but your imperfectness is what makes your perfectly unique. I would consider you get in touch with a website I happen to know, www.sixbillionsecrets.com . Maybe that may help you in one way or another but being yourself and realizing who you are would make you perfect enough. You can always try to change your appearance, your thoughts, and even your personality, but you're still the same person as ever, whenever, and that's not going to change. Society has crumbled into ashes, and everyone who accepts the "rules" of society you'll... become rather blind... figuratively of course. Anyways, wish you luck, and give that website a try.
You can start by looking in the mirror and see what really makes you a beautiful person. Insecure is a way to stop a person and even others from seeing how beautiful they really are. Have confidence in how you look and when others see it they will begin to see the real beauty also.
Brittany, GOD dont make junk or ugly people. You are beautiful. I'm a stranger and I see your beauty inside. We are hardest on ourselves. Lighten up pretty girl, concentrate forward. Your life is calling. Peace
You are never going to get away from your self... everywhere you go their you are, you might as well learn to love yourself. most the time the things we dont like about our self is really what others admire most about you*;p
you must work on your thoughts if your ever going to get out of this rut you got yourself into btw. YouTube:: Joyce Meyer Battledfilled Of The Mind.