Not really an answer to your question kuuipo, but I think it is something that should be mentioned. The mods remove email addresses from profiles and Q&A when we find it on the site. We are unable to monitor every profile and question/answer/comment, but we do try our best. If you come across these things, please feel free to flag the content to let us know.
Additionally, we want those in the community to be safe and smart about what they share with others. Just a reminder please do not give out your email address, phone numbers, Facebook pages or any other personal contact information on Ask.com or any other website in public view. There are people who cannot be trusted and who will lie to get information from you. Please be safe!
It is definitely, under no circumstances, would it be appropriate to give out ANY info on here. I seriously don't even see why there is a feature to give out where you live on here! It's very dangerous.
Edit: Also, I just remembered a question a few months ago about this person who put her email on her profile, and now she has this "little kid" stalking her and messaging her in her email who won't leave her alone.
It's definitely wrong, and the only reason that it would occur is if the adult has boundary issues and/or ulterior motives. It is possible to help someone on here, in sight of God and everybody, unless you have something to hide.
kuuipo, I don't think you're old-fashioned at all. This is a scary age we live in, and it only gets worse the more that kids get blase about internet safety.
Definitely inappropriate! Almost to the point of notifying Chris Hanson and getting the sweet tea and cookies ready...
As far as just asking question and answering them u think it's ok, I've noticed a lot of younger people asking things they may not be able to ask parents, also let's face it, the younger generation is more tech savvy and helpful with today's modern world, that being said, I think what would be inappropriate is either asking or responding to questions that are sexually provocative.
I don't condone this, BUT, not everybody is out there trying to get into kids pants. I've had a couple "kids" give me their E-mail here and just b-cuz of the stigma that comes from an older person (I'm 34 for cryin out loud, goin on 17) talking with a kid, I just haven't E-mailed any of them b-cuz it's a headache I don't need to deal with if they try to say I'm trying to lure them some where or something like that (which would NEVER happen). I'm even sketchy on talking with kids in my trailer park b-cuz of the same reasons. Society has somehow made me feel creepy in my own skin and it's pretty unfair. I would NEVER do ANYTHING with a kid, but society says that if you're older and talking with a kid, then you must be trying to sleep with them, and that ain't right.
I think so. I would never go beyond commenting with people on here. I'm a smart cookie.... :3
Hi! I applaud all of the above observations. unfortunately, as been noted, not all people are of good spirit and mind when coming on any site. I think common sense is something a lot of us take for granted. The desire to steer people toward answers they are seeking is what this site is started for and continues to do an exceptional job in maintaining. Kids will always push the boundaries. It's one thing kids just do. It's the responsibility of all of us to word questions and not offend the adults and the still put it in some "lingo" that the kids are using. Sometimes it tough, but helping a person young or old is always worth it me. Thanks for putting it out there to remind kids to beware. Adults as well. Have a super great day!
I was gonna say I don't see a problem with something that seemingly harmless, but based on the above answers, I guess I'm the odd man out. I'll agree with them!
Its amazing what sort of questions people put on here, does seem alot of young people are too shy to ask parents or guardian about what can be done, I don't think any email addresses or mobile numbers are allowed, it's all based on asking anything and no one knows who you are
No, nada, zilch, and not even close. That crosses the line and should actually go beyond ASK and report to police for a questionable pedophile.
This is a very troubling question for me, it kept me up most of the night.
There was a very smart beyond his years teen on here that thrived on adult wisdom and connection, actually we thrived on his smart witted answers as well.
He was made to feel very uncomfortable by someone here emailing him at least twice a day, so he made the choice to move on to other sites designed for teens.
Guys please remember if it feels weird, it is weird, that's our built in fear telling us to stop.
I know you don't want your parents reading your mail over your shoulder, but your parents jobs are to keep you safe and out of harms way. Never ever go to meet up with anyone ever, you don't know 100% for sure who your meeting, you could put your self in danger. Always keep yourself safe, this goes for emailing too! If you can't share it with your parents, don't do it !!
Kuu, he's gone. I knew he was lying about Eric and the mod jobs. But instead of calling him on it, I covered for him. Yes, it's inappropriate. But I actually emailed him first. Stupid. l had to leave because I didn't want him to know I was on. He emailed me later saying that he was asking Eric if he could make a different account using the same email. Chances are, he's coming back. With a disguise. Most likely to spy on us. You were right Kuu. God, why am I so stupid?! Jake and I are the only minors emailing him right? I don't know if it was Vietnam or just him but guys, never email a 60 year old person unless you're above the age of 18. It's not worth it. UGH.... I wish I could hit a reset button. I guess it's true. Trouble is a friend. So beware if someone talks to you like this ! It's probably him !
(((hugs))) in a mom way. 8)
Kookie, I don't know of anyone else that emails him (under 18) but if I find someone, I'll tell them:)
Candy, yeah... He talked about you.. I know what you guys mean now. :( sigh
I always thought I was cautious about who I talk to on here and I only email less than a handful. Thankfully he wasn't one of them. Thanks all, for keepin it real!! I'll definitely be second guessing EVERYTHING here!!
Mandy, you and guss aren't actually related, are you? lol now i feel like an idiot. Yeah I thought Bob was not like that... :(
King, she's 13.
You rock Kuu! Keep up the great work!! :o)
I agree email shouldn't happen, but sometimes you want to give pertinent background information without a permanent public record of it.
One reason to not use your real name, to remain anonymous, to keep your distance. There needs to be a buffer zone.
At 40+, I don't share my email address.