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How can I become a better christian and not care what others think of me?

im so insecure that every time i hear someone say im not pretty or that im ugly it really hurts how can i fix this

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It's hard not to care when someone says they don't like how u look, it does hurt and probably always will hurt just a little. But as u get older, while it still doesn't feel good, u will be more accepting of yourself and realize that other ppls opinions really have no effect on your life whatsoever. If someone calls you ugly, it doesn't change your life one bit. It gets easier with age. As for being a better Christian, try your best to live by the ten commandments and to help others.

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okay thank you
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Not trying to spam you, but you should check out the book "The Purpose Driven Life." Great religious Christian book that can help answer your question; along with any others that don't come to thought immediately.

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okay ill look into it thanks
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helixaqua

You need to remember that not everyone is perfect,the people saying things to you should think about their lives before judging.Looking at what I see in your profile pic I see beauty......worry about yourself and not what others think.

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thank you
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helixaqua
Anytime! You ever need to talk about something I'll be here!!!
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thanks that means a lot
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helixaqua
^-^ (Sorry, my faces are limited,Zaruna is teaching me.) Im still trying to figure out if that's a cat or a smile!
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lol
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Good! At least your smiling! :)
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haha
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HarleyThorpe

Well as a start you can make yourself think about other people's faults. What makes them so perfect? Just ignore these words. And if they really start bugging you, tell them off cause they likely are very insecure as well.

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thanks :/
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if you were really insecure, a complement would make you feel worse.

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they dont help me they end up makeing me look in a mirror and point out my own flaws
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I fell more uncompfortable whaen someone gives me a complement because you should say thank you. when I want to say " no I don't"
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i kno and sometimes i say both
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Just keep reminding yourself why you want to be a better Christian and surround yourself with people who share your values and who can give you encouragement when you are going through a tough time.

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Find other Christians to hang out with, there's probably Someone you know feeling the same way right now, get involved in a youth group, trust me, those groups ( especially at your age) have a blast! oh, and the best thing you can do to be a better Christian is to ask for gods help and keep reading the word!

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