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I feel like my life is going downhill, what should i do?

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Focus on the moment your living in. Forget about the past and don't think of the future.

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Relax and enjoy the ride down. :)

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That will take me no where in life
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After you build up enough speed you can coast up the hill on the other side.
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thanks
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You mean, your life is taking a turn for the worst? Because going downhill is usually the metaphor for things getting EASIER...

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ya thats what i mean
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Then one thing you can do is whenever you feel down; get up, do some chores, finish any personal or outside source project, take a bike ride across the neighborhood. You can play a game of chess with a friend. Or you can just simply go to a park and work on some homework. Some of this may seem boring, but being productive and keeping your mind occupied with something fun or lousy boosts your moral! And when you finish that activity, you will feel like a champion.
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don't worry, life is about its ups and downs! There's an up after each down.

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Escape to the nearest planet for perspective.

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Do your best to keep looking on the upside to whatever happens, remember it will always get better and try keeping yourself busy with things that make you feel better.

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Forget about the past. You got your whole life ahead of you. Focus on the future. Don't let anything from the past screw that up for you. Life does get better later on. Always stay strong girl.

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In my opinion, if you feel like you have lost grip and everything is going downhill ask for help from friends or relatives. In addition, evaluate what is causing it and focus on the things that are positive and important in your life.

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Stay Positive. Everyone goes through hard times. The Best of us didn't become the best by being the best in one day. They all were put to the hardest of them all. YOU just happen to be somewhere where you are currently on your "not so good" place. This is just temporary. You can go stay down and be depressed or YOU GO CONQUER THE WORLD. and be yourseld at the same time. A true person's character is shown when he is down.

Remember: Diamonds are made thru molten rocks underneath the earth where they undergo the toughest, roughest, deadliest tests to become the hardest, most beautiful stones on Earth.

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i just feel like i cant get over yesterday, just keep re thinking it, i didnt even leave my apartment today i was so.......depressed
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Noodles. It's okay to be sad. It's okay to be depressed. Cherish the moment, cry if you want. BUT. YOU DON'T HOLD ON TO IT. You MOVE ONE. You LEARN from what happened and you do your best to BECOME the best.

I know it's hard. This is probably the hardrest thing you have to do your whole life. It is to move on after something like what have happened these past few days. Noodles. You are a beautiful, talented, young girl. YOU are allowed to make mistakes, but you learn, and grow and mature, and make smart decisions. It is for your own self. Go by it day by day and take one step at a time. It will all make a difference once you get the hang of it.
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your right, but i feel like i cant move on
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Right now you probably can't you're too sad. Go have fun. Spend time with family. I'm sure they miss you soo much. Go to mom Noodle girl. She loves you. She always has.
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not once i tell her what i did, she will be ashamed of me
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You're her daughter. She will understand. She was once young like you. Plus you're her most precious little angel. I'm sure, as the sun shines brightly that your mom loves you.
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do you think i should tell her, i mean she is a very sick woman, and i dont want to stress her out
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Then don't. You can tell her if you want. I'm sure she'll understand you. But just go to her. Tell her you love her. Go call her right now. Mom's have it in their DNA to always love their children.
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ok
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ok
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she said she misses me, she was disapointed in me, but she was also proud of me for not taking the job, and for keeping myself pure for so long with all of the pressure nowadays
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Did you just call her? :-)
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yea :) ........................i miss her :(
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Go to her then. I'm sure she'll accept you and maybe? even help you out on getting a new job or going back to school :-) Make it happen.
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im just scared im not ready for her to die, and not when shes in my care
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She Needs you. be there for her. She needs you most right now. Will you let her go through that without her seeing you? Wouldn't THAT make you regret not doing it for the rest of your life? You just go there right now. Go there and be with your mom. See how things go from there.
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ok, i think im going to pack the next 3 days then fly out of cali by sunday
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Go do that Noodles :-) Maybe? You can find your new life there :-). You'll never know, right? Stay positive :-)
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im trying my hardest ;)
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I know you are. I'm here... haha Now go eat some Noodles! Noodle girl!?
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i had a whole carton of ben and jerrys ice cream today............i think im good :)
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Yeah.. I'm really glad you're feeling better today :-) You should. You deserve it. You deserve to be happy after standing up for yourself like how you did. :-)
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yah, but im really ashamed of myself, i always told myself i would wait untill marriage :(..............o well
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It's okay Noodles. You were hurt and were vulnerable. You needed to feel secured and protected and appreciated. You did wrong. But the important thing is you learn from it. Don't let the past dictate how your future goes. Take Control and make the best out of eveything, everytime.
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you give good advice :) but even better i found someone who knows how to cheeer me up, thanks for being such a good friend......i really have needed one the last couple days and you where there
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You're welcome. It's just that I believe that no one ever has to be stoopid for a guy or for that matter for anything. We learn, We live, We make our rules along the way. All along not forgetting to have fun and to love. To share those two with everyone else.
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well first im going to focus on my mother then......im not sure, maybe school
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That's great.. :-)
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Yeah, i know everything will be resolved sooner or later
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alright, cya around......bye :)
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