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My relationships never last long am i doing something wrong?

The first thing your probably thinking is they break up with me but i break up with them actually. I dnt get it i think i like the guy then when i start going out with i dnt even want to be around them. Am i to immature?Or am i just picking the wrong guys? I feel so stupid all my friends are in a couple month long relationships and sometimes i can barely last a week! HELP!!

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I think, that you may be too immature. But i mean its just an opinion. Dont take it personal

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Think maybe you are jumping to quickly into a relationship. Take things slow, get to the person, their interests, if you can carry on a conversation with them. Sometimes being alone is good. Helps you realize what you are looking for in a boyfriend.

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You could either be of a nature that you sabotage your own relationships because deep down your are afraid of commitment, or you keep falling for the same type if guy and therefore always hooking up with jerks, or you jump into relationships rather than going slowly and let nature take its course so you can find someone for who they are and not for shallow reasons.

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To me, it feels like your rushing and are mostly focused on your friends' relationships, that your making yourself get/feel depressed. Again to me, it also sounds like your focused on more of what people think or say, when you get a boyfriend. It takes time to actual start a relationship. Don't just jump in, when you have a chance. Communication is KEY(; Besides there's no rush(: Love is Forever(: You have plenty of time(: Ohh another way is to become friends first, so you can see the real side of him(: hope it help'd(:

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