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What should I do if my mom never lets me hang out with my boyfriend? He's a great guy and I'm 15! Yet she insists I'm to young to date.

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WTF is this "hang out"??

If the guy doesn't have the money, brains, or balls to invite you on a proper date ... well, I can understand why your mom is leery of this BOY.

Where's your dad? You need an adult male to supervise this....

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Ask if you could invite him to dinner one night with your mom so she could to know him better and see how great of a guy he is :)

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You should talk to your boyfriend about that, I mean communication is something a relationship must have in order to survive and you and your boyfriend should come up with something you guys should do whether it's to both of you guys talk to your mom or breakup and if he rather breakup than you will know he wasn't worth it.

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Because of your age you have to listen to them. Sorry.

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I agree with her.

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Moms know their children. How they are, act, talk and what they are capable of and so on.

Rules are to be made by mom and/or dad so, what they say goes.

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She might have a good reason for saying no. :)
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Those reds weren't from the computer ILMK. They were from kids who ask questions but don't want to get realistic answers.
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1sInnovations: Your right.

Dozy, I didn't think of that but, your right. I do know that I can't please em all.

It is what it is and they will just have to live with it, until they are grown.
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I disagree.. I think you should talk to your mom and make her see you are responsible and maybe start just by hanging out at your house when your mom is home.

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You should ask if he can come over for dinner and let her get to know him and instead of trying to get out of the house with him get him to come over to watch movies and let her see that he is the person you say he is in her own way remember you are mommy little girl and you will always be so take your time that way it is easier on her and that's best for you both

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If she says you are too young to date, then you are too young to date. Believe it or not your mother knows what she's talking about.

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You left out an important detail, is he like a 30 year old or something?

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15 also.
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Tell her you are 15 and ur not a little girl anymore. Plus that you know whats right and wrong.

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u better shape up and listen to mom. momma knows best baby girl. be glad u have someone watching out for you.

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well i wasnt allowed to date till i was 16 and i had to wither be on a double date and or more people.. some parents have different parenting ways and just doesnt wat you to get hurt.. i have had plenty of amazing guys and then you seemed to get to know them and then they turn on you they just want you to be safe

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Yes, you are too young. You may want to contemplate on a few lines from Rogers and Hammerstein:

You wait little girl on an empty stage
For fate to turn the light on
Your life little girl is an empty page
That men will want to write on.
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Eager young lads and roues and cads
Will offer you food and wine
Totally unprepared are you to face a world of men
Timid and shy and scared are you
Of things beyond your ken.

..and the song was "16 going on 17".

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