If you are experiencing account issues, the best thing to do would be to contact Customer Support so that they can take a look at it for you. In the meantime if you are worried that someone may have accessed your account, you can also change the email and password associated with the account as well, just in case.
Really! I'd like to know what happened cause I've had some problems too! You know your warning about getting to close to people? I'm old enough to know better but, I did it too! Unfortunately, I got taken for a ride!
Probably the mods playing with the buttons again. A couple of days ago I gave some really kind and sensitive advice to a hurting individual. It got nuked because their word finder stopped it. Along comes a mod and blasts it to oblivion. I hope you get to the bottom of the issue because I understand your concern and frustration.