During the baby making thing u know the s word put a pillow under ur butt . & after the s thing put ur legs up as high as u can to do that put ur hands on ur hips to hold ur self up stay with ur legs in the air as long as u can remember don't stand up cause it will run down the point it to make it go in ..
I suggest not focusing on the end result. I have friends who are in your situation, and for whatever reason, they are having difficulty the second time. Relax. Of course Chart your ovulation etc , but don't start obsessing. You know what to do!!! Good luck