how can I get my parents to realize they are going over board with how they treat me?
so, my dad... ever since I was younger he's always hurt me and in so many ways. he has always yelled at me really harshly and for no reason. he yells at me just for talking. it's like if I even try to prove my case in anything he gets ten times angrier. he considers anything I say "talking back" but I really don't. all I can do is sit there and take his anger, and it's caused quite a bit of damage to me. I've been depressed and he makes me cry almost every day, he's always saying really hurtful things and I just hate it when he yells. it's horrible. I've always tried to be really good but he's just so intent on having a reason to yell. eventually I realized that he just... doesn't care and I think it's on purpose. when I ask him to please stop yelling he gets angrier. I've tried talking to my mom, but she just tells me it's my fault and I should behave, but I get yelled at for nothing. so there's nothing to stop. I swear I really do behave. my mom doesn't seem to want to believe my dad really does hurt me. I guess shes been keeping him off my case a little bit since I told her if she kept letting him treat me the way he did I wasn't gonna live here but it's still unbearable because I'm so afraid I might slip and tell my dad off an make it worse. but the point is I've tried everything to get them to realize they Hurt me and they don't listen how can I get them to notice? I don't want to hate my dad but, he makes it impossible to have any relationship with him.