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slayerisKING
slayerisKING: 10 months ago

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I only have about three friends. everyone else I don't really care for. once I get into high school In August I'm pretty sure i won't have classes with them. I plan on being silent and not talking to anyone because ,besides those three people I don't feel comfortable around other people. but one of them told me that's not a good thing because that would make me "the creepy weird guy who doesn't talk." and that I might not get a girlfriend like that and people might pick fights with me for that. honestly I couldn't give two shits about girls. But I don't want to get in any fights. would people really fight me for this?

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ImTalkingSoShutup
ImTalkingSoShutup: 10 months ago

You're friends are just being stupid. Sry but they don't know what they're talking about. I'm a senior in high school right now and i can tell you right now that so long as you don't wear a bunch of black and stupid top hats or walk around with a ton of anime books and basically try to be as normal as possible, all people will think is that you're quiet. People may tease you a little bit every once and a while just to get a reaction out of you just cuz they're curious. Just take it good naturedly and maybe tease em a little back (nicely) but you'll be fine. Oh and the girl friend thing (i'm a girl, i should know) if you're nice to them, not creepy, if they try to talk to you, talk back and be polite, and if you're sweet to them then you'll be fine. Don't worry about it. Btw it'd be easier to go ahead and make an effort to talk to people but if you're dead set against it, just be nice and you'll be ok. Don't pick fights, don't rile people up, and if someone trys to pick a fight (guys are stupid and they have a tendency to pick fights just so they'll have something to talk about with their friends) then just ignore them and walk away.

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slayerisKING: 10 months ago
Most people my age are retards. I hate just about everyone in my school except those three people. (2 actually. The 3rd one moved in 7th grade which sucks.) the girls in my school are retarded as well. I know a guy who would ask girls for naked pictures and some would actually give him them and stuff but others would just say no. But then the next day they say stuff to him like " awww your so cute!" and shit. Then all I say is "hi" then they go like "OMG HE SUCH A CREEP!" and I'm jus sitting here like -.-
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dynamic: 10 months ago via Android
By far, that was the best answer.
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ImTalkingSoShutup: 10 months ago
SlayerisKING, just hang in there.
dynamic, why thank ya :)
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Kit_Kat
Kit_Kat: 10 months ago

no...most people just wont talk to you if your like that.

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danahudson
danahudson: 10 months ago

I don't think you will, but you should really try talking haha because people that don't talk will get picked on so just try not being awkward and you'll be fine!

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sanonie
sanonie: 10 months ago

People start fights for all sorts of reasons. Most of them not rational. Honestly, I believe what you think is what matters. If you would feel happy that way then go for it. Don't let other people hold you back from being comfortable and happy.

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SavvyGirl0
SavvyGirl0: 10 months ago via iPhone

Probably not unless they are a huge jerk and they're all like, " ANSWER THE QUESTION OR I'LL POUND YOUR FACE IN!!!!" that's only like 10% so I wouldn't worry about fights. ;3

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JordanWeaver
JordanWeaver: 10 months ago

If you want to be the quiet kid, you go for it. High school is a very tough part of life, and it's easy to lose friends. If you want to avoid that, it's your choice. It doesn't make you creepy if you want to be quiet.

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BloodRed
BloodRed: 10 months ago

You should talk more because blending in will get you nowhere

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JordanWeaver: 10 months ago
And being popular in high school will? I disagree. I think being quiet and avoid drama is a lot more rewarding.
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jman4383
jman4383: 10 months ago via iPhone

dont worry about it. if a guy fought you for that than he is a jerk. high school is a joke most of the time. dont get to stressed. work hard and focus on your work. the only thing that matters is after high school is the real word where there is a girl that will love you and see what your friends see in you. also in class everyone is the quiet ones because the teacher wont let you talk. all in all high school is a joke you will he surprised what happens but it wont be as big as is what to come in your future!

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chernobul11
chernobul11: 10 months ago via Android

well i'm was the same way. try talking to people, they dont have to become your friends. try and be tolerant of them if they talk to you talk back, if you want to say something say it.

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slayerisKING: 10 months ago
Its just that I feel as if I'm the only metal head nowadays at least in my neighborhood. Everyone else likes all that pop/rap garbage >.< ugh its just do annoying how most of the other douches my age say the word "swag" everyday. Ughhhh I HATE that word. It just ticks me off >.<
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chernobul11: 10 months ago via Android
hahaha i now how you feel. have people my age saying that to. just try and get through it, trust me its worth it in the end. as for the music just dont listen to the crap they play haha.
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cnunez74
cnunez74: 10 months ago via iPhone

I was the same way and girls always wanted to talk to me cause they were interested why I never talked and they would tel me I was silent but deadly cause they always fell me crazy but it's not a bad thing if U don't talk

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apersonthatisunknown
apersonthatisunknown: 10 months ago via Android

....aw...wana be friends?!(; im a girl though....jaja. you'll make friends next year! trust me! just put your gaurd down!

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slayerisKING: 10 months ago
Sure I guess.
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apersonthatisunknown: 10 months ago via Android
jaja ok. im goin into highskool too. how do people act like at your school?
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slayerisKING: 10 months ago
Well most of them are straight up annoying. There's this one guy who I hate the most though. Like I swear. I sit at lunch by myself cuz whenever I try to sit by people (well I have more friends those friends but threes hose are just the ones I trust and know the most.) he would kick me off the table. I pretty much hate everybody. They are all two faced , Ghetto , and all that. But that one boy he pisses me off the most. I want to tear his face off and staple it to his ass. Ughhhh I HATE him so much. And you can just imagine how he dresses too. He looks and acts like a douche >.<. It's people like him who make me feel disappointed in the human race.
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slayerisKING: 10 months ago
*those three are the ones I trust the most -.- sorry.
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apersonthatisunknown: 10 months ago via Android
well duh theres going to be people who you dont get along with. but you have to just....grow some balls and either stand up to them, or just ignore. btw i dont mean non of this ina mean way.
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lovextoxbexyou
lovextoxbexyou: 10 months ago

Well, I'm going to step my foot in high school as a freshman as well and I know a few people in the High school... if they mix the grades up in the same classes at your high school then you will make plenty of friends C: most of the time the people that's been in high school for a year become more matured... but you should talk a little... and not be afraid just mind your own business when people try to throw drama at you C:

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podbreak
podbreak: 10 months ago

You seem to have the impulse to communicate as shown by posting here. Try to continue by little steps this summer. Maybe you will have new friends by the time school starts. Good luck.

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slayerisKING: 10 months ago
Thanks!
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podbreak: 10 months ago
You're welcome
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INFERNO666
INFERNO666: 10 months ago

Take it from that guy. No.

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XOhotbunnyloverXO
XOhotbunnyloverXO: 10 months ago | Last edited at 10:14PM on 7/1/2012

be who u wanna be and injoy it but where r u gonna sit at lunch its called by urself not a gd thing or when u need a partner u should have at least 1 friend in every class or more

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