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What does the bible say about premarital oral sex? Is it a sin?

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any kind of sex would be a sin if premarital

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I don't think that the Bible mentions oral sex......can't say for sure though

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Oral sex is still sex, don't split hairs.

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According to the Bible any kind of "sex" is a sin until you're married.

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All premarital sex is wrong. Sex is for married couples.

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Marriage must be honored in every respect, with no cheating on the relationship, because God will judge the sexually immoral person and the person who commits adultery. (Hebrews 13:4 CEB)

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Just thought I would poke my head in to say HI to Bobby.
I like your answer, Greenie!
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@first-I was wondering where you went!! Thought you deactivated. Guess you just changed your username.
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Hi there. Just took a short nap. Chuckle.
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Haha :P
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But He will forgive you if you ask him.
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Not unless your married...but please...although most of these answers are correct...don't trust us...go look it up for your self!

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1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
The bible says to abstain from it. Sex outside of marriage is a sin. The ability to procreate is a sacred ability and purpose given to man by God. when God first create the world, he made Adam and eve, and said neither the man is without the woman nor the woman without the man. He commanded them to multiply and replenish the earth. Se.x should be a sacred and private act between a married man and women, as a way to make children and to express love. it is not meant to be abused. yes, it's a sin.

I didn't see oral... but that is still a sexual act.

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Lovely answer, as usual. :)
Greenie!
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Thank you:) glad to see you're back:)
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Thankyou. :)
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It is written:
Leviticus 21:13
And he shall take a wife in her virginity.
The sanctity of marriage is one man and one woman only and no other manner is acceptable.

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Sex is Sex .. any kind of sexual activity .. even kissing can be construed as sexual activity. I'm not talking about kissing your dear ol' Gramma kind of kissing .. I'm talking about sexually charged kinda kissing .. although harmless between two unmarried people .. kissing in a sexual manner is considered as adultery if a person who is married is doing it with someone other than their spouse.

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Well and passionate kissing can lead to other things too. It's sexually stimulating.
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And even passionate kissing can lead to other things. It's stimulating.
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Sex is the Bible is defined in a very limited way compared with modern definitions. In the Bible sex is ONLY between a man and a woman, with penetration (some say only vaginal, others say including anal). Oral sex is not considered sex in the Bible, and is not disallowed explicitly, as it was not considered sex. Also, homosexual relations between two men are disallowed (because one man takes on the woman's role), but not between two women.
You may ask then if we are to conclude that the Bible does not condemn oral sex between two unmarried people. It does, but indirectly. The Bible commands us, "You shall be holy, for I, the Lord thy God, am holy" (Leviticus 19:2). The rabbis have learned from this commandment that unwholesome acts are also disallowed, although not banned explicitly. That is why most orthodox rabbis are against lesbianism or oral sex between unmarried couples.(Some are against the latter also between married couples for the same reasons.)
Rashi indeed commented that "you shall be holy" means to "...refrain from sex and sexual transgressions, for on the other side of the boundary of sexual transgressions is where you find holiness".

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Interesting.
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I always like to read your responses. Green.
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The Bible doesn't really differentiate between different kinds of sex. Anyone who has sex before they are married are required to get married or pay the dowry for the "used goods."

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Even seeing someone naked before your married is a sun! Let alone touching them!

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I feel sorry for med students...
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@jk-obviously that's different..... They aren't trying to be Se.xual, it's medical.
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Seeing someone naked would be lust, so yes it is.
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Oh boy, hell is going to be very hot for you, my friend.
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Momo what do you mean?
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It was just an inside joke. Nothing to worry buddy!
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ha it's a sin not a sun btw :)
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Auto correct! I'm sorry!
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all sex before marriage is sin, don't engage in it! wait until you've found and married the right person!

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What if you are not sexually compatible with your woman? Before marriage would certainly be a good time to know.

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green for you!
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That's what I always say!
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It's haram brother how did you say that?!
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At least dating!
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I'll give you an advice momo , I noticed you always give relationship advices that may lead to do something haram , there's hadith that tells if you lead someone to something evil ( haram ) you're as his doer , so you will take the same amount of sayye'at or Ithm the doer takes . Remember that .
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Do you Sadaqa Jariya ?(continuous sadaqa) this is the contrary ( Sayye'a jariya )
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I love paying Zakah.

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I know Sam that I sometimes let myself go. Perhaps it is because I'm now married! :)
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Congrats !! :D masha2 Allah
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Sorry for too much commenting , but what I meant bro is just try not to give non-muslims sex advices because they might do it before marriage , then you will take the same ithm or zanb when ever the did the thing you recommended them to do , it will be a contiuous source of sayye'at .
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I've never heard so many uptight answers. if two consenting adults want to have sex they should. the man made religious beliefs are ludicrous.

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