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What to do i caught my boy friend on top of my 11 yr old daughter while she was asleep ?

i caught my boy friend on top of my daughter while she was asleep.. he told me he was going to get water but i needed to get something too .. i saw him with his legs open on top of her . when he saw me he jumped off and scared pretended he hurt his leg .. i confronted him he said i was confused and that nothing was wrong to trust him ... i dont have a job and my two kids are not his besides im 6 months pregnant ... i thought of buying a nanny camera to make sure i dont know if that would help .. i talked to my daughter she said she will be on the look out that shes a heavy sleeper ... help ....

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Kick him out, call the police, have your daughter checked by the doctor. If you do nothing, your child should be taken from you.

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Super answer.
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This stuff makes me SICK to my stomach!!
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dustee
wow g
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Amen!
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I think you need to call the police.

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Keep him away from her asap!!!!!!!!!!! You should leave him because we all know what happened........You need to call the police and keep your daughter away from him,,btw sorry your boyfriend is a perv.

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Call the police right way! If he did it once he will never stop. Save ur daughter from a possible live changing situation !

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report to the police as child molestation

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You have to protect your kids....
Definitely talk to someone you can trust. And keep a look out . If needed call the police... And good luck

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i think you're dealing with a pedophile
THe predator is loose hide the children !

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You know what to do, using the words.....on top of my daughter.

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Oh you know what he was doing and it seems that you should either call the police or BAN him from your house for a while then let him come back and he does the same thing call the police

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I know your in a bad spot....however, who cares if you get a nanny cam...your daughter will be molested! Move out! Your kids must be your top priority. Move in with your parents, siblings or someone else until you can get on your feet.

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It's pretty sad that you even need advice. GET HIM OUT OF THE HOUSE, NOW!!!!

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Bingo.
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You need to report this incident to child protection, they would tell you what to do. If you don't say anything and your daughter is being molested you are gonna be blame as well

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please listen to your intuition,i never listen to my heart and it was the worst thing i did ,your daughter is probably scared to tell u,because u r just going to believe your boyfriend , just bcause u r pregnant and have no job doesnt mean u have to stay with him think about your children they r innocent,and u r responsible for there safety meaning leaving scum and going to a shelter...please investigate my life was shattered cause i was that lil grl please...

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Honey I',m sorry. I hope she listens to you!
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Don't let him near your children EVER AGAIN. We've all heard the horror stories. Don't let your daughter be a victim! Kick him out, get help from friends or family, and TELL THE POLICE. ASAP! Also, take your daughter to a doctor, just as a precaution.
I'm sorry you're in this situation AND pregnant, but you have to protect your children AT ALL COST. You are there only safe place. They need you. <3

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he is worthless get your kids away from him

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I was molested at 11 I think of it almost every other day for the last 40 yrs.. the molester is dead hopefully ROTTENING IN HELL.

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Green. =D
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Dustee....
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Kick his child molesting butt out the door! Your kids come before anyone! Call the police and press as many charges against this piece of crap! Get out and get a job. I'm sorry but there one be only one way he would leave my house, on a stretcher! Your kids come first!

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Always trust your gut feeling! If what you walked in on bothered you enough to ask for help, then you don't need to ignore that. Always trust your motherly instinct! A lot of mothers ignore that instinct we have to sense danger when it comes to our children, & then bad things happen. If you ignore this, you'll be keeping your daughter in an even bigger dangerous situation, because now your boyfriend will know he can manipulate the situation, & make you believe your "instincts" are wrong! Don't talk yourself out of this gut feeling your having, because it will happen again! And the question to think about is....what if your not there to stop it?

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ur defenetly wright i cant stop crying about this i cant sleep , my daughter knows that its bothering me so much .... she said he has never tried anything but that she would have let me know ..
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I hate your having to go through this. But just knowing that children are born with automatic trust & dependency in you to protect them is something you can use to be, & stay strong in this. Your daughter knows your upset, & you also had to question her about it.....so if you keep the boyfriend around, & he ends up hurting your daughter, she will forever & always hold that against you because you knew, & didn't do anything to protect her.
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If you choose that piece of garbage over your daughter, when ( yes, I said when) he rapes her, she will never forgive you. And she shouldn't. How can you even have to think twice?

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kick him out

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dont be STUPID what are you doing!!! break up with him you can't riaks your daughter's safety over some pedophile, don't be stupid, even i wouldn't think twice and i am not a mother. your daguthter's safety is at risk and u come here and ask about what u should do???!!! You got everything but a brain in that head of yours!!! CALL THE POLICE!!!

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hahahaha I love your answer!!!!!!!!!! Even I know what to do and I'm 13 lol :)
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Call the police that is scary!

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