Every time I've ever been in a crisis someone has been mean or down right cruel to me. That shouldn't have been. Wheather it was my own mother or my older brother Tommy or even my so-called other brothers or sisters. I thought about that over the years and even though I don't talk to any of them (10 years now) I just quit caring about them all. As they showed me how they truly felt about me.What u need to realize is some families r just disturbed and totally disfuctional. I gave my brother a car I didnt need anymore and a refigerator and when i needed him was he there? no he took my oldest daughter away from me. Then he thought he could do it again and I finally had my revenge. Who ended up being the bad Guy in our family? me. Mine was just one of those disfuctional families. But that's y I've tried to help others not be so disfuctional. There's nothing u can do about it, some people just like to kick people when their down. Its sad when it's your own blood.
Lots of people are so caught up in themselves that they don't really care if someone is hurting or not... they're going to say what they want regardless. Some people are just jerks with no consideration for others.
A person in crisis is someone who is in a life-threatening situation that is beyond their ability to handle. If you are religious, talk to a priest. If you are agnostic, ask a detailed question into a major search engine and see what resources are available to you.