Well, if you are scared for your future, do something. You are the ONLY one who can change this.
Go to sleep. Wake up in the morning, bright and early. Shower. Put on some nice clothes. Look in the mirror and admire yourself for a few. Tell yourself a few good things you like about you. And go out, and put in applications EVERYWHERE. McDonald's and Burger King are hiring ALL the time. And no-one should be above working here. I've had to have jobs there to make ends meet for myself and my family before.
Give it a few days, and call and check on every single application you put in.
YOU are responsible for your future. If you're afraid of the way the future is looking for you, then that should be motivation enough to do something to change it.

magdalene: 10 months ago

Great answer! green

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Cjkenkel: 10 months ago

Thanks :)

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calm down . youll be fine if you just make something outta yourself . find applications for jobs save money to buy a house and car . plan your future a head of time .

magdalene: 10 months ago

Good answer. green

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Don't worry don't give up just keep on trying till u find a job take any job u find till u find a better job than rent a apartment build your self up, it's the best feeling in life to build your self up from nothing to success

magdalene: 10 months ago

thumbs up!

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Take control of your life n be successful !!!! Show everyone that you are a winner !!!! DO IT !!!!

magdalene: 10 months ago

Good answer.

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Ok - I'll try to give you some immediate advice. First - you're a young person - and at the precise age that you're mind is literally changing - and suddenly seeing so much to be concerned about - you're overwhelmed - which is totally normal - over the next couple of years, you're going to develop skills and goals that will relieve you of a lot of this stress you're feeling - you've got to be patient - and cut yourself some slack. Next, you're going to need to talk to experts that understand your situation and how to get you stabilized - this will help drown out the horrible pangs of fear you're having - these experts are called social workers and psychologists - it doesn't mean you're crazy if you talk to them - in fact - just the opposite - it means you're taking control of your life and are open to advice by experts. Scan for social services in your town and get an appointment - it's free. If you don't feel like you're connecting with whomever you meet with - be brave and ask for another person. The expert will assess your immediate needs - like food, clothing, shelter, and counseling - they can help get you some work as well so you'll have a few bucks in your pocket. If you're feeling depressed - they may want you to try taking an antidepressant - you've got to be able to think clearly to plan your way to a better life. Next - you're going to have to resign yourself to the fact that you need to be educated in this country to have any real hope of economic stability. That means finishing HS or getting your GED - and then applying for college - you'll probably want to live on campus - you can work part time on the side. Try to pick a major that both interests you and that there are jobs waiting for you when you graduate. The college or university will have student services to help you make these decisions - make use of them - the more information you have, the better your decisions are likely to be. Got all of that? I know this is scary - but be determined to survive and not be a victim - some of the greatest success stories started with guys or girls in similar situations as you're facing now.

skyycrunk: 10 months ago via iPhone

Thank you so much an yea I am possibly depressed, an I have went to a ton of places who help you out an I ended up not contintuing them

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magdalene: 10 months ago

@Cere Good advice. Helpful!

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cerebrogasm: 10 months ago via iPhone

Thanks - I wish I could help more - all I can add is that I picked up that you may be suffering from undiagnosed depression - it shows up in your thoughts and colors everything dark - in males, it can even bring on bouts of aggression. The good news is that we've got a pretty effective handle on treating it - and in more & more cases - we're effectively curing many forms of it. The approach is to first get assessed by a psychiatrist (psychologists can't prescribe medication should you need it) - typically you'll be put on an antidepressant drug class called, "SSRI's" - they take a week or two before you start feeling better - they're not addictive - but don't just suddenly stop taking them - you've got to wean down - or you'll get some nasty headaches and possibly rebound depression - stick to what your doctor tells you. As you start to feel better - you'll also start to feel more optimistic and able to devise positive strategies to getting your life back. This is where you will probably want to talk with a psychologist or social worker - who are trained to help you with just about every aspect of your life. One last bit of advice: stay away from booze and drugs (even weed) - exercise (mix weight training with aerobics) - eat clean - avoid junk food - and get a solid 7 - 8 hours of sleep, daily. I know this is scary and a bit overwhelming - but try not to think about it - just do it - like the Nike says ;-)

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bella904: 10 months ago

Good advice

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Lauriezirk: 10 months ago via iPhone

Wow. Good advice!

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cerebrogasm: 10 months ago via iPhone

Thanks all - I was in a similar situation when I was 17 - many moons ago - and a couple of older dudes I worked out with gave me a lot of the same advice & support. That helped me know exactly what a lot if teens are going through - and how to get them back on their feet and in control of their lives. I personally can't stand seeing young people suffer.

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Pray !!!

So sorry your going through this. I think you got great advice from cerebrogasm. DO what he says. The operative word is DO. You will feel less stressed when start to take control and make a plan.

Sit down and write a list of what you want to do with your life. First for a current goal, you may want to find a job so you can support yourself and get a more permanent place to live.

For the second goal, you need to finish high school. Find out everything you can to help you stay in school and get your high school diploma.

Then as a long range goal, you may you want to go to college. You can decide what your major will be and write a timeline of when you would like to finish your degree. Go to a college to see what is available for funding and grants and write this on your goal list as well.

I know it is hard when parents are not there for you. Both of my parents were alcoholic and I went to work in the fields at 9 yrs old, in order to feed my younger siblings. Becoming independent will be much easier for you, because you are much older than I was and only have yourself to worry about. You can make it on your own, you just need a direction. Writing down goals, will help keep you focused and pointed in the right direction. You are not alone, we are all out here cheering you on.
Take care.