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6Months into a relationship and we are making plans to get married I can be with him forever.,but I worry that he may not be ready yet

I feel at times that maturely he's not able to have one woman and I don't want him to cheat on me. Should I call it off till im secured by him

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I think if you have doubts. you should at least postpone it until you are sure.. marriage is hard enough . dont add mistrust to it..

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Then talk it over with him. I always talk it over and make plans even a few weeks into the relationship because we like the idea of talking about romantic days and our future together,making sure we're both ready for that moment.
If your not ready its all cool, just take a 'break' from each other if you want to explore other people.

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U have a bf or not? If u do ur comment is useful : D
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I don't think you should be getting married if you don't trust him. If you're still doubting him then you might want to wait.

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I don't know how old you are, and I don't know the whole situation, just a little bit of advice, you need to find the security within yourself first, and then go to him and ask him what his agenda for the two of you is?? And yes, if your already having doubt's, I know I would call it off until I knew that my boyfriend, or in your case, your fiance was not going to play games. My mom has alway's told me to take care of yourself first, and you teach people how to treat you. Just some food for thought. Hope this help's. God bless

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Yes I r does thanks
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R u engaged or ur just plannign for the future?

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Engaged rings already to pick up.
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I ment So ur about to?
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