Assuming that by "talking" you mean getting into a relationship later.
Well how old are you?and are you ready for the responsibility? Because even if she's telling you that "their not your kids don't worry about it" you will be taking care, physically and financially, of three kids. And do you really want the baby daddy drama.. If she's having a kid in December, obviously, the relationship is still fresh and she probablly still has feelings for him even if he's telling you otherwise.. So, no offense, but you might be getting yourself in a little too deep..

Swagmasta3: 10 months ago

Swag

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kimmy94: 10 months ago via iPhone

Your right! I do have swag!:)

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No not at all just because she has kids doesnt mean you cant be her friend c: plus you should if shes all fed up with her kids

Yes that is the most retarded thing I've ever heard honestly your the dumbest guy I've ever heard about and believe me there's a lot!!!!

kimmy94: 10 months ago via iPhone

That could've been said a little nicer, don't you think?

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Patrick5195: 10 months ago

Idk

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I think you're dumb just asking this question! just because she has children doesn't mean you should question yourself. I have 3 children myself and would not like that. if she plays her part and makes you happy then whats question? I think as long as you don't build a relationship with the children too soon it's okay. don't b scared b a man!

SheaDiggs: 10 months ago

lol, i like ur comment, thank u

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No but please make sure you are ready to take on the full responsibility of caring for three children and for the limits three kids must necessarily put on your relatiinship if you mean to get serious. A brand new nursing infant plus two more kids will not leave a lot of time for dating and private time. If shes a good mother then shes a package deal. If you arent ready then dont lead the woman and children on then drop them when you get bored or tired.

I user to date a woman with three kids and it wasn't easy. I hope you're ready to assume the roll of daddy.

Yep

Patrick5195: 10 months ago

Ya I agree don't do it dude that would be so dumb

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if this is the same lady who is 28 and you 19 yes its dumb. I have a brother your age and i would pound on his nerves for telling me or even asking me such a question. I mean man you are still some what a kid yourself and now wanting to help raise 3 kids that are even yours. It's a nice gesture but not a smart one. you probably just graduated high school maybe a year ago, go to college get a degree, find a good job, and someone on your level of experience. trust me it would me a must better relationship and friendship for that matter. i hope this advice helps

Again, as I stated earlier your age means nothing. if you have the maturity, and the where with all to support her and her children, go for it. I was a step dad myself, and though it was a challenge, I wouldn't trade the time I spent for anything else in the world.

Ok basically you like this chick, she's a bit older than you and she has 2/soon to be 3 kids. There's nothing wrong with being friends with her, but im guessing that you're looking for something more than friends. Just ask yourself, where are the 3 dads of these kids? Are they to 3 different guys? Sad to say but some women jump around having kids to different guys and just collect the support for these kids. I'm not saying that's what she's about, you know her better than we do (I hope lol). Your family is gonna freak I'm sure, understandable, you're 19 and getting involved with an older woman who has a lot of responsibilities, it might be best to keep it as friends and bit rather than get involved romantically, see how it goes and maybe later it'll happen.