Heck no,!!! Staying single is one of the best things at that age. I didn't have a boy friend until 15 and I hated it. Being single through out high school is one of the best things I could ever do. And just because your friends all have or had boy friend doesn't mean you need one. When you single, your free, you can do anything you want
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I was 17 when i had my first boyfriend. So no, actually I think 13 is a little young for a boyfriend. Relationships are complex, you really need to know who you are to give and receive that kind of love and at 13 you're just starting to figure yourself out. Also, boyfriends hurt (but are also great), so unless they're worth the pain, I advise you to stay away.
One of these days Darlin, you will have had plenty. And as the lady before me said, they are very complex and hard. But when it all comes down to it, you have to trust yourself. And that's tough to do at 13. Try to enjoy your youth. The rest is coming, believe me! Take care.
No not at all, I started to young and wish I could go back and just enjoy my friends and being single. You have a lot of time for dating, in addition just have fun and find out who you are and what you want in a guy and the it will happen
No, it is not. If you start doing that, where will you be when 18 comes around an old lady already? How can you not realize the amount of distraction a relationship is to your studies. Now a days college is much more important than relationships, that most likely end no where but in real life disappointments. Haven't you got enough with your studies? Because a BF will give you false, illusions at this age. Careful, it is more likely to ruin your life, than save you. That's why, you haven't been lonely until you suffer with relationships; they should be put off until at least after high school. You haven't had trouble like a relationship at this age, wait and don't suffer needlessly...
NO way i didnt have my first boyfriend until i was 15!! its normal, 13 you are still trying to be a girl/lady too young to be serious!! have a crush but not a boyfriend till your like 18!!! i swear its not worth it just have fun! Learn threw your friend relationships...you'll have a lot of friends with toomany boyfriends it will make you not want one! or may make you want one, love yourself!!! deff at 13 love yourself and the time you have to still not work!
Absolutely not Hun, you are still very young and need to mature into a young woman if you want relationship ,, of course people all around you have boyfriends and girlfriends, but you know the chances of those relationships actually lasting, so it is absolutely not wierd if youve never had a boyfriend
NOOOOO!!! ur lucky, im 13 and i dated lots of people, the could break your heart, and force you things that u dont want to do. wait till your hormones are done, cuz that wont build long lasting relationships. seriously.
No there is NOTHING wrong with that. i didnt get one until i was about 15... dont worry about boys! they will come to you along the time.. just wait:) you are very young you have a long time to get one
No its not pathetic. And the only person you should be asking if you're ready for one or not is yourself and truly yourself not the you being influenced by friends and family. Its your choice. Personally my first relationship was a failure at 13 and i ended up pretty depressed. Whereas my second at 14 only ended because they moved away. We were inseparable. It goes to show you never know what can happen, you just need to make the decision based on your own inner feelings.
I don't think that;s pathetic?? I didn't have my first boyfriend till 15...it happens at different ages for everyone. I agree with the above post...don't be the girl who fools around just to have a boyfriend...that won't make you happy either. Be patient, be yourself, and you'll date eventually ; )
No! I'm 13 never had one my friends havnt either. I'm not allowed. Your not even supposed to date until your ready to get married. Because God has one person in mind for us. You aren't going to need to find him until your ready to get married
No, it's not. Honestly I never been into such relationship until I'd became 18 yet still I don't have any personal relationship at all except from friendship. You don't need to have a boyfriend/girlfriend in order for you to be happy, there's a lot of things to do to be happy. But nowadays, I thought most of teenagers now can't live without a love life. Their prioritize is about to their love life.
For me it is better to be single having an inspiration than to be in a relationship yet seems to be complicated.
Yet it always depends on how we handle such things and how we want things to be done.