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towndog
towndog: 10 months ago

What should i do just walk in on my thirteen year old son ...uh yaknow watching well you get the idea is he too young?

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IMAEDDY
IMAEDDY: 10 months ago via Android

no ,just make sure he is into women. P.S. Let him know its natural ,and that its all forgotten.

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towndog
towndog: 10 months ago
i dont care if he is gay or not (he is not ) why should i
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dr.gaga: 10 months ago
Ya that's what I was gonna say it dosent matter which gender ur into
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IMAEDDY: 10 months ago via Android
well ,It dosent matter,but I wouldn't encourage it.
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bobbyray78
bobbyray78: 10 months ago via Android

Heck no. He's about the right age to start that uh yaknow stuff.

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Kimmberrly
Kimmberrly: 10 months ago

Better then walking in him doing you know what with someone ;)

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platypus99
platypus99: 10 months ago via iPhone

Nothing!

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Latinamamiita
Latinamamiita: 10 months ago

the thing is the teens now in days, our hormones act up earlier than what they did during our parents time. i think you should sit down with him and give him the security that he can come to you and talk to you about these things. :) hope this helps.{remeber this is coming from a teens eyes}

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alva
alva: 10 months ago

Ignore it - knock next time and be blessed he wasnt with another boy --- But you said Watching ? Watching What ? Take away whatever he was watching and or watching with ..

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dr.gaga: 10 months ago
What's wrong with him and another boy seeing each other she would proabaly love him either way
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val_jarvie
val_jarvie: 10 months ago

No do not walk. Let him experiment...but after a while you should take it away when he isn't home, it's the age all boys do that

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JohnLucien
JohnLucien: 10 months ago

love him, understand that he is at a discovery age, and talk to him about sex. also talk to him about the consequences of pregnancy, diseases, and health. also make yourself available to listen and not judge. you need to be able to hear what he has to say wheather it hurts or not. not doing so will cause him to avoid you and go somewhere else and do the same thing with no imput from you.

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tonifitch
tonifitch: 10 months ago

I am not sure what you are saying but if it is about having sex, yes he is too young unless he is ready to support an unplanned baby. Heck,he is only in Jr High!.. You can do him a favor tho and explain why he should not become active in a serious relationship. It is unhealthy, unsafe and not right.
Just because kids see it in the movies, and some parents are not doing their job, does not make it right.
He needs to enjoy sports, friendships and work. His time will come and he will be glad he waited.You will too. The best:)

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russianrespect
russianrespect: 10 months ago via iPhone

Its pretty embarassing for him but what boy doesnt ... Yes personally hes too young but sont confront him it will be more embarrasin !

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IMAEDDY: 10 months ago via Android
he's not too young.
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dr.gaga
dr.gaga: 10 months ago

I would say leave him alone he is a teenager just remember to knock next time

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cookieroma
cookieroma: 10 months ago via iPhone

If you allow porn in your house than its all good.

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monicaserene
monicaserene: 10 months ago via iPhone

I think it is best to knock any time your child's door is shut. You would want the same consideration.

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patsview
patsview: 10 months ago via Android

yeah I walked in on my son once and he was mastering ukw. I never said anything and neither did he ever. it's best if we just forget those things.

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loltids
loltids: 10 months ago via iPhone

Yes it's normal for boys to experiment when entering puberty. I agree with John that it's time to have a talk with him. Discuss as much with him about reproduction and consequences. If referring to porn let him know that's not the real world and it's mainly for entertainment. Explain to him how he should treat girls respectfully and always protect himself. If you open the communication he will be more likely to talk to you about sex in the future. You may not like it but it seems to be the current trend with teens.

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AbbyGrace
AbbyGrace: 10 months ago via Android

no.

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Muppe1tfan
Muppe1tfan: 10 months ago

It's completely natural:)

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