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why do girls think guys r just mindless muscle.

my sister tells her friend to ask me to help her move and refered to me as mindless muscle. not fair. but when i was helping her i was doing all the thinking and figuring things out and lifting. whats up with that.

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I think girls tend to think of guys that way, because of their body structure. Muscles in boys are viewed to be large and strong as compared to those in girls. Thus, when a girl has an issue about lifting something, the closest or nearest male, is the first option to go with.

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true.
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make him feel like she is wrong. prove that you are not just a muscle man. that is just her first impression , if she knows you more, then she might think again! :)

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dont mind being there to help out and lift things. but the mindless part and its my sister. oh well what can i do.
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always be a gentleman. that is the best way you could change the impression of a girl.:) and if your sister said that, then i could not defend you with him, he knows you more :)
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her friend is a she. but i just do what i am asked. i try my best to be there for others.
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then the problem is in him. the thing is, you help , then you are said with that. in that situation, i would not mind that then. she does not know me much, so why bother. :) maybe that was just a pure word, describing you physically, not meant to describe you inside. :) or he might had a BF who is muscled and broke up with her.
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lexi1994gra

Ca's some girls are weird!

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some r. true. how r u. ;)
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lexi1994gra
I'm good
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lexi1994gra
Wbu :)
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swell. gona listen to some music and play goldin tee with some friends. ur from fl. where u at.
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lexi1994gra
Miami
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wow thats like a million miles away. never been. i want to someday. i love tampa.
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lexi1994gra
Is it nice there
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it is nice. and the beach is close by. cleawater is only 20min away.
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lexi1994gra
Cool
I have a pool :0
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i dont :( do u go to the beach at all. one of my favorite places to chill.
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lexi1994gra
Sometimes
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if i ever go to miami i want to just chill at the beach. so r u into art, tattoos.
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lexi1994gra
I'm in drama
I guess u can consider that an art
I guess tatoos are cool
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who knows i dont think that

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ur part of a select few. good to know there r girls like u out there. :)
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lol yeah but they could also just be kidding
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partly yes. i agree. but it was more then that. and being an only brother to three younger sisters the jokes never end. its fun and i dont mind helping out. im a guy so i do what i can to help.
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lol thts cool
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Not calling you mindless musclebut some guys operate like that... they dont think and that gets then into alot of trouble. Btw how have you been? I havent taked to you in ages. Lol.

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well not all guys are like that but some guys are slightly pinheaded....but its they way they act and talk.....but i really miss us and would love a chance to catch up with each other

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i dont i think ur HOT with a capital everything!!!!!! lol ;D

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Some girls just think that men only think with their thing instead of their brain....

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