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Should I leave my boyfriend and will he change?

I did some mistakes in the past and my boyfriend can't forgive me. I'm now 7 weeks pregnant but hes making my life hell because hes too controlling. I don't know if I should stay with him or leave.

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My ex was just like that never able to forget my past mistakes yet it was so easy to forget his own. Once a man is controlling he won't change if anything he will become worse. It's sad to leave the father of your baby but it might be what is best for you and your soon to come baby.

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I don't think he will change. I think you should try living life without him so that you can be happy and free... good luck and congrats!

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I would say leave.. if he's controlling, you don't want him in your life despite being pregnant. He'll just make your life even worse. If a guy can't forgive you for mistakes and if he's going to be a control freak, get away asap.

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if je doesnt make you happy try to leave. if he threatens you, call the cops.

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Change in what way???

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forgive me and not be controlling. I mean were having a baby and he still thinks i'm going to cheat on him.
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did u cheat on him in the past? why would he think that? or is he just insecure?
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He considers it cheating but I just dated other guys while talking to him.
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I wasn't with him though but we were friends with benefits
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If you were just talking and havin sex at the time,hes just a miserable person and has always been,always will be see,a lot of times peoples true colors dont come out til they think they have you right where they want you,he wont change and,1 day you'll end up leaving anyways,if your smart,you'll do it b4 babys here
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yeah your right, like right now hes so mad at me and doesn't want to talk to me because hes says i stress him out a lot. There is a lot of thinking to do but Thanks though :)
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Yes, leave.
No, he won't change.

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first of all if he got you pregnant and you want to leave him you must get child support and make a compromise about when he will get to see the baby, if you cannot agree than you are going to have to fight for custody in court most likley he will not change especially if he is immature and focuses on your mistakes more than his own the best thing to do is force him to sit down with you and talk about your child because the baby will always have to come first

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One of the biggest mistakes some young (and occasionally some not so young) females make is waiting for him to change. STOP IT. He is who he is. Either live with it as he is or walk away. Just don't waste your time waiting for him to change.

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Excellent advice!
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Do you want an unhappy pregnancy and baby??? your past mistakes shouldve stayed there,in the past,if hes not forgiven you,espescially now,he wont and hes going to keep on making your life a living hell,if you love yourself and your baby,leave him,try 2 make it work away from him BUT,if nothing changes soon,leave him alone for good and,love that baby like everydays your last,4get him,its 4 the better,or live your life miserably

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You don't need someone like that!! You should leave. It would be a better environment for you and your baby. I know it might be hard if you really love him but it would be best. If you really really wanna be with him you could try coupled counseling but leaving would be better..:)

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just remember :'' you can't never change a person, they have to do it by their own'' . Trust me he won't never change.
wishing you all the best >_<

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You need to leave before this baby is born and it's too late. Every human being has a right and responsibility to control their own life. Don't let him or anyone control you. Get out now and take control of your own life! You only have so much time before the baby is born and the court system makes everything painful, complicated, and nearly impossible to get away from this guy! You're obviously unhappy now, and even though things are bad now, believe me they can and will get worse if you stay. Leave. Get counselling. Your baby NEEDS you to be happy. When the baby is born and becomes your entire reason for existing, he won't matter to you anymore. You'll wish you had done it sooner.

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