Some people are better then others at piercing. I got mine done and it didn't hurt that bad. It should be a quick pinch. It shouldn't hurt after you get it if you take care of it well. If it does hurt or looks infected after you get it you should go back and talk to the person who pierced it 'cause they will tell you what to do if it gets infected or you don't know what's wrong. You may have to take it out, just because sometimes a persons body doesn't want it. You might also be allergic to what it's made of (That happened to me with my earrings 'cause they where cheap. Gold worked). Good luck!
SUCK IT UP! BE A MAN! Getting your ears pierced ain't bad at all. Just inhale deeply, and when you have the piercing through, exhale. Ice also helps if you can't deal with pain. Numb the side that you want to get down, then pierce that side, then end with the other side.
Nope -- it's just a quick pinching sensation & a slight sting from the alcohol, but as long as you're having it done professionally, you'll be fine. Got mine done when I was 9, didn't bother me at all. Be sure to alcohol your ear lobes daily afterward & turn the studs so they don't get stuck as your ears heal. :-) Best wishes!!