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justynunez: 10 months ago

How to dump my needy boyfriend

I just starting dating a guy for a week an already feel suffocated he calls non stop every minute of the day. and is already talking about moving in my apartment no way! He has a short temper, snaps very quick and not to mention he asked me on the first date do i do oral so weird. and he already is talking about having kids with me omg its only been a week i need to get out without hurting his feelings please help

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christine13: 10 months ago

Sometimes you just have to be blunt. I would do it as quickly as possible. Just tell him he's moving too fast for you and that you are not ready for such a huge commitment.

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KennedyDavis: 10 months ago

true yesh thats rite shawtie

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cupcakeerzi: 10 months ago via iPhone

Say I don't think this will work and give him a goodbye present/kiss

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lenastar99: 10 months ago | Last edited at 1:02PM on 7/6/2012

Just say sorry it's just not working out but it's not u it's me I'm sorry by

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BagdadCafe: 10 months ago via iPhone

While the answer is clear, why you went past the first date is odd to me. Odder still is that knowing your "boyfriend" was not a good fit, you have let it go on even a week.

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GI102: 10 months ago via iPhone

Just be honest and strong to say that you are not my type. Better to walk away or feel sorry later. This type of aggressive behave of the man in early relationship is not a true lover for you. Good luck.

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SmittyJA24: 10 months ago via iPhone

1) Apparently, you should have ended the first date early. You didn't = you're desperate ... but not as desperate as the joker you went out with.
2) Bluntly tell him to never contact you again by any means, or he'll hear from you via letter from your family attorney.
3) Remember for the next time: one date does NOT make him your BF... and if that first date doesn't go well, you can ask to be returned home early.

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dmh7030: 10 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 1:27PM on 7/6/2012

Justy:
There is no easy way to do this. I recommend taking him to a public place to do it. This may seem harsh but he will be less inclined to cry and make a scene. Secondly, do it swiftly and don't try to sugar coat it, as this will make you appear as if you're not sure if you want to break up.
I know its easier said than done, but the longer it goes on for, the more it will hurt. Don't be tempted to return his calls or messages as this may give him false hope, but do be willing to discuss it in a few weeks time if he feels he needs answers. But make it perfectly clear this does not mean you can resolve things and get back together.
Good luck....yolo
Darren

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reneebond: 10 months ago via Android | Last edited at 1:38PM on 7/6/2012

Dont lie to him,let him know what hes doing wrong so,he can work on it BUT,dont stay with him,he is an abuser,this is just the beginning,tell him,its not what you thought it would be,hes not who you thought he'd be and,you dont want to see him anymore,if you dont this is what your life will be like,but worse,its your 1 and only life,be happy,its only been a week,2 easy 2 get out of,good luck

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Obieceedee: 10 months ago via iPhone

Women are sooo funny!
"I don't want to date you anymore."
Move on.
Done and done, son!

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