Am I wrong?
My 14 yr old is just getting past a really rough few years dealing w/major depression & other traumatic events. 3 mths ago, she was able 2 get in contact w/her 21 yr old sis who's been an immeasurable help n get'n her back 2 "normal." But, the sis has major drama. She has issues with major depression, self loathing, & self destructive behavior; including smoking weed 2 escape (she calls higher than outer parts of the galaxy). Her bf & I have been encouraging her 2 seek treatment, but she's been COMPLETELY resistant. Couple nights ago, was the last straw 4 the bf. Last night did it 4 me. She was "venting" 2 my daughter, telling her that she was gonna get her mom 2 take her 2 the hospital in the morn. We made lots of suggestions bout how 2 get help right then, but she shot em ALL down. It became apparent that she didn't want help, but 2 drag my girl down w/all her garbage. Maybe not intentionally, but thats what was happening. My girl was visibly upset. So, I pulled the plug. I sent her a message & told her she couldn't talk 2 my daughter again until she got help.
Was I wrong? Or did I do the right thing...at least 4 my daughter?