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brittanyelizabeth: 10 months ago

Why can't i trust that i wont get hurt?

i believe that he loves me and i believe that i love him but ive been hurt a lot before so why can't i trust that i wont get hurt

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w1963bobby: 10 months ago via iPhone

It's a chance we all have to take.

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okay thanks

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w1963bobby: 10 months ago via iPhone

You are welcome

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naomi1234: 10 months ago

Maybee your use to it

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maybe

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bradahh: 10 months ago via iPhone

Trust can sometimes take time to develop. Give it time.

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ladyc89: 10 months ago via iPhone

Don't give your 100% until u feel its best! Remember you need to protect yourself. Just always keep an open mind.

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okay than you

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MarylaneMendoza: 10 months ago via Android

that happends when u been hurt before....ur just afraid to give it all nd them hurting u again..but remember u have to trust...to live happy.....

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SmittyJA24: 10 months ago via iPhone

1) you presume every guy is "the one" & it's gonna be "happy ever after." Quit it.
2) you're taking things too fast. Slow down.
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You gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Then, when you finally get one, step back & observe for a few minutes: he's been a frog much longer than he's been a prince.... Still muddy, have a couple warts, & prefer to eat flies.

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tpollio12: 10 months ago via Android

You need to trust yourself first: trust that your choices are best for you. If it turns out that you get hurt, perhaps reevaluate your choices in a partner in regards to what qualities are important to you. Keep your heart open, and if you two don't work out, you will have learned some important lessons to help you in the next relationship. We all go through these feelings, but you can't let heartache shut you down. As the say goes, " it's better to have love than to never have loved at all", or something close to that. If, for example, you two break up because he was mean to you, then you now know that the next guy needs to be a respectful, kind and loving person. Lesson learned. If he cheats, the next guy needs to be faithful. Lesson learned. If he is abusive, you will not tolerate the next guy mistreating you, etc. Experiences in life shape you and help create your standards for a partner. That is why we date different people, to find the one that is right for us. Best of luck to you.....hope it all works out for you. :-)

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brittanyelizabeth: 10 months ago

thank you

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tpollio12: 10 months ago via Android

you're welcome. I hope it helped!

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