I don't see how people can make the argument that love is a choice,to say it is a choice is to say that it bears some analytical relevance,that it is a logical choice.That couldn't be farther from the truth,love is intangible!!Sometimes you can love someone you don't want to love,where is the choice in that??Love is sitting on the couch next to a beautiful girl in complete silence,leaving the room and feeling like you just had the best conversation of your life!Love is like falling up hill,now tell me where the logic is in either of those statements.Though intangible they are real feelings that know one can choose!!
Love is a deep feeling towards a person. It brings a lot of affection towards someone as a result of the person's attractive qualities and behavior. Love is often considered to be influential in every person's life.
Love to me isn't a feeling. It's a decision. You decide to be in love with someone. And the word "love" can't be just thrown around or else it loses its meaning. Like "I love one direction!" no you don't. You just like them very much. You don't know even know them! So that's what love is for me. It's a strong choice to have a commitment towards that one person. Hope this helped!