I would buy a small gift for the other lady! I'll tell you what I started doing & people love it! * I go to dollar tree, get a basket, some bottles, pacifiers, comb & brush, wash clothes, baby shampoo, powder, baby oil, lotion, wipes! All that small baby stuff! I put it in the basket, wrap it in plastic & put a bow on it! * Voila! You have an inexpensive, lovely, useful gift!