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For the past 9 months ive been in a so far perfect relationship and I really want it to last...how can I ensure it does?

My bf and I have been happy together for 9 months and I just never want it to end! How do I keep the perfect relation-ship sailing?

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It'll never stay perfect. But that's ok. None are perfect. As long as you GET each other. And be major honest bout big stuff. Your ass looks fine in those jeans is not big stuff. It's ok to fib sometimes. But straight bout serious stuff and you got a better chance to make it than most. Good luck

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Do what your doing and learn from your mistakes!

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Keep doing what your doing. Spend time with each other, yet not too much time. Agree to disagree. Don't argue too much, and when y'all do..forgive easily. Stay focused on each other & not other people & what they have to say. It probably won't last forever but there's always hope.

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hmm

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Just keep doing what you've been doing. If it ain't broke, don't try fixin it.

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Unfortunately there is no insurance. It will take a lot of work by both of you. Conversation is very important

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Continue to communicate well. Remember not to take the other person for granted and show your appreciation for them as often as you can (doesn't have to be gifts, can be a phone call,etc)

Understand that perfection is in the eye of the beholder. There is no one "correct way" to have a relationship (although there are healthy and unhealthy relationships). Know that you will fight (if you don't yet then you will and should because this means you are not always bending to the other's desires which will lead to resentment later.) Love always and let your partner understand that you can work through issues together (and do this, don't just say it.)

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Well if it's meant to be it'll last & if it's not it won't don't try to force it cause it won't workout.

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