To fix a broken heart, requires the passage of time and determination to forget the past. Go through the period wanting to forget about it, not live in it for the rest of your life like it has come to an end. You can also reach out to a close friend or family member. It helps to share your thoughts with others. For more information, visit http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/how-to-fix-broken-heart.
As you heard from all the other ppl on here you cant just fix a broken heart. "TIME"... time is the key. With time your wounds will heal i remember when i got my heart broken but trust me things will get better there will be times were you will feel like you cant bare to live without seeing the person that broke your heart (" that you loved") and there will be times where you will be happy and smiling and laughing with friends and family. the best thing to do is just let time heal you go hang out with some friends have fun stop sitting in the house thinking about him/her free yourself.. stay busy and i promise you after time goes by you will feel like a new person. Hope this helped Good luck!
I have been there myself back in 2006...when I hear a certain song, it seems like yesterday...Some people seem to love quicker and deeper than others, at least that is how it was for me....Yes Time is the answer...but while time is working its magic, I tried keep busy and to stay around people and not be all by myself. Friends help, but try not to talk their ear off... Looking back, I now feel sorry for my friends...lol...I also poured my emotions out into a couple of poems. And then soon after I got them published. At least something good came out of my pain. But man was it hard to get through. Now I look back and ask myself, was he really worth all those tears? ... No, he wasn't!
Only Jesus can heal your broken heart. That's what I believe with all my heart. My son was murdered a year and a half ago, my husband died of cancer 17 years ago, so I leaned on the Lord, and he was the only one who could mend my broken heart. My heart longs for them, and loves them forever, but the pain is eased when I call on His name. Thank you. I hope this might help someone.
By looking at your picture you look like you are under 25. At that age a broken heart hurts bad, but just think that tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life, and at your age you sure have a long way to go! in the process you, for sure, will find someone new who will come into your life and you will be surprised how you will manage that new relationship from what happened with the old one....AND IT WILL BE A LOT BETTER!!
When your young I think especially if u were with that person for a while maybe a year or longer, you almost don't know how to picture yourself without the other. You are still growing as a person and have grown up with this person even if it were only 6 months. you're so used to doing everything with that person and you probably now feel lost without them. not sure how you're feeling. but i have to tell you it does and will get better. if he broke your heart than HE is an asshole! :) and it's his loss. if you left him, try remembering why you left. it sounds corny but what also helps is to make a list of all the good things about that person and the bad things or a list of all the things that being young and single you will now be able to experience and couldn't before because you were held down! oh yeah and break up songs help. i also recommend fully avoiding the radio or any love movies. These things DO not help! And stay busy! Good-luck (:
move on, and relize that there are more fish in the sea and think about why you guys broke up. And If it was something he did then he is not good enough for you. You deserve wayyy better. And it also helps laying bed for a day ou eating junk food and whatching your fave movie, or you can go to a spa relax or even hang out with friends. And remember your single and there are so many guys out there and when you single you have some sort of freedom and you dont have to worry. i hoped this helped and i am very sorry about your breakup.
Try to surround yourself with the things you love, hang out with friends, or spend time with family or pets! All you need to remember is things will get better. You will find another guy! It may take a long time but if you find a guy that treats you right and that doesn't cheat, it was worth it!
you know u just need to learn loving yourself don't think about the people who have breached your trust he has gone from your life because he was least worthy for you!! i will not say to forget everything because i know its harder to the hardest... but in spite of thinking of that guy you need to talk & spent time to the people who are actually your true friends
forget the past! Get in a hot tub, invite your friends over, eat ice cream, listen to Adele, prankcall your ex, and tell everyone how horrable he is. After you do that move on. it's HIS lost. YOU are the one that got away! i am sure you will find someone that will treat you right and love you with all of their heart!! (OH! I almost forgot!! WINE!!!!!!!)
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The only true way is to get with him and ask if he would go to a chaplain or Pastor for counseling if he does not want to . you will find your soulmate just don't give up it's his lost then you are a breathing living ,giving and Loving person who has a lot to offer a man pick yourself up and start to live again ,Only you can feel you are worthy of another mans attention and Love and Devotion. Bless You!!
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forget all what has happend nd try to start a new begning eat an ice crem,watch a great movie,hang out with friends or fly. read a comic,watch cartoons,watch tv,surf internet,fb e.t.c can help u the best is burn the persons pic who have broken ur heart then flush it and go and give him one tight slap and tell all bad words to him u will really feel great!!!!!
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Time heals all wounds. I'm still taking my breakup day by day and I can feel myself getting better each day. I threw away everything that reminds me of him and I luckily have supportive friends. I ate ice cream and had a really good cry on my first day without him, but every day since I've stopped myself from breaking down, but it's still hard because the thought of him is constantly plaguing my mind.
Rebound Relationships are great. They show you the grass is still green on the other side and make you stop doubting yourself. Don't be too serious, just enjoy life. True love will come again when you least expect it.
I know what that is like. It's almost as though your whole world is black and white. there is no color anymore. Like nothing is as beautiful as it once was. You can't even really listen or talk anymore. If feels like your life is going downhill. IT GETS BETTER I PROMISE. Eventually the sun comes out. You can smile again. You just have to let time take it's course. Trust me after a month the sun starts to show. There is so much more to life then a guy. You gotta live for yourself love. Become independent again. You'll find someone else eventually. Just gotta work on you first :)
Time. keeping busy and loving yourself helps. It was the hardest time for me when he'd run through my head while I was trying to sleep, so I would imagine that he was covered with crap (or anything disgusting). 'Seeing' him gross like that made me giggle and I was soon asleep. Try it.
We want to love Self more than the need for a relationship. You are having a relationship with you. Relationships, like soul mates come in all shapes and sizes. Think of this painful one as your teacher. What are you learning about yourself from this experience? What were the red flags you may have stepped over? No relationship is a mistake. We are here to learn, love and evolve. http://www.kelleyrosano.com/products/twin-soul-karmic-mates/
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Push yourself go out to meeting new people and friends. Doing activities with everyone you know. Write your story down, everything you want to say to him or to yourself. Weak up every morning tell yourself you will have a better day and you want to live life and be happy. Learning meditation it will help you. If you live in a large city check out if any Meetup groups around you, join the group that you interested in. It is a very good way to get out meeting new people. Source http://www.datingtomarriage.com
Trust me, the more you try to run away from the pain the more you are going to hurt yourself. Going out with friends, talking to others, trying to find a new guy/girl, drugs, alcohol or indulging in work is gonna give you relief that will be temporary.
The only remedy according to me if first take all the pain, accept the truth that it happened, cry out, scream if you want, remember all that has happened and let it absorb you for some time. Then when you feel you have done taking it, tell yourself that now I am going to move on and get up and get going. this will;
1) Help you appreciate your happiness more in the future.
2) Will make you more kinder towards other and
3) Will teach you the ultimate truth, that without suffering you cannot grow. As much as happiness is needed so is your suffering.
Write down all the lessons you did learn from your relationship and take it as a lesson. (One thing that happens during a break up is we tend to get biased even though we know he/she has left, cheated, hurt, we still tend to feel the other person was right, don't do that)
Just remember :To love and win is the best thing, to love and lose the next best.
Make a list of want you want out of love in relation to your life. Do you want a husband and family who love you no matter what? Do you want someone who believes in your dreams and supports you? Do you want someone who adds to your life? Once you realize that this man and that relationship were not adding to your life but were sucking your life-force you will move on faster. So often women get hooked on a certain man instead of finding a man who fits nicely with their definition of a quality partner! http://www.connectwithhisheart.com
They are right time heals all wounds. Right now it hurts. But there are steps you can take to lessen the pain and keep from becoming infected with bitterness. Allow yourself to grieve, Take care of your physical health, Keep busy,and Pray to God about your feelings. 1Peter 5:7 "He cares for you" [God]