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I dont understand cheating in a relationship, if your going to cheat just stay single .. its simple... Agree?

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Honestly cheating goes both ways in my head. I have been cheated on before and it proved to me that there are some people that can't handle a good guy, and I'm a laid back guy that is not up my girls butt about anything. But sometimes guys cheat because they don't really like or love the girl they are with and are needing help financially, or it is comfortable to be with that person. Then other times the guy has been with the girl so long and doesn't feel the same way, but rather than just break up and deal with drama they wan't to leave the relalationship before it is done. I could be that the girl isn't up to standards and you want someone better, or it could be because something is mentally wrong with the guy and he just wants some pussy on the side. This comes from my brother and bros I hang with.

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Agreee!!

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hell ya i agree

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Ikr I 100% agree with you. I never understood the whole cheating thing either.

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Yup .. Your tottaly right ..

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Well a man/woman can be confused but I agree...<3

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100 % agree

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i dont agree

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So you cheat? That's discusting.
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i dont but for all the cheaters in the world they have there own path
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soo your NOT against cheating ? if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you its just be ok ? .. well thats you LOL
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yeah in my head it is ok it just in my eyes its a whole different thing
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Then its okay if your lover cheat on you ?! ?
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Mr_FadedGlory
She said that to get attention and to get attention from you. It's working. All you people fell for it.
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no i really dont agree...
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I agree. I don't believe there is any good reason for cheating. Unfortunately it seems that these days our generation just doesn't care to be faithful and honest

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Yup, fidelity is soooo old fashioned
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Yes and no. I agree you shouldn't cheat but sometimes the situation changes. In that case, break up first and it won't be cheating.

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that I agree with.
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Agree :(

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People(guys and girls) have their reasons why they do it. IT IS TOTALLY WRONG. It is a cheap non solution to having problems in a relationship.

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Yes I agree totally.

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I agree with Tony - yes and no - people cheat for different reasons, and it does not reflect loving your partner more or less...situations change and so do people. What you need to do is have the courage to speak to your partner, work out the difficulties OR leave the relationship. All of these things are great (communication, etc.), but easier said than done.

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Exactly, i understand that situations change but cheating is STILL not an excuse, you either Talk, Or walk. thats my motto .
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I don't see your point...., but I still think cheating is stupid.

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Point is why cheat when you can just leave ...
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Because sometimes guys don't want to leave. Some of the slutty ones like to be dirty, and there are other reasons too.
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^ THAT'S EXACTLY IT c:
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Yeah, but my point is the slutty ones don't want to be single, so they're not gonna be single.
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yea soo my point is that thats stupid and immature lol not to mention SELFISH .. i mean obviously there are reasons to cheat but it doesnt make cheatimg right.. thats what im saying.
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Yeah, I totally agree with you, but people aren't gonna stop cheating just because cheating is wrong. They know it's wrong, but that doesn't mean they care about doing the right thing.
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True certainly if you are engaged or married. That would be a no brainer. Before that you would be just dating different people . I know.... What century do I come from? Or what planet?

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I think a polygamous society would be a happier one. We are polygamous, by nature. Well at least males are...

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unlovedEmily003

I think it's different depending on how old you are because when you are younger you dont take your relationships as serious, like for example im 13, i have never fallen in love head over heals and yes i have cheated before and my boyfriends pretty much didnt even care

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wOw....
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what?
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Well then i wouldnt really call that a "relationship" i guess at your age thats what you call a real real BEST friend, because if it were a real relationship there would be feelings involved, and if you OR your boyfriend didnt care about the whole cheating thing there obviously werent any true feelings
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you're so young and you're cheating already??
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Agree with Neesie.....
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umm yeah?
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Well it's a very immature thing to do- cheating that is. So I, for one, dot think you're ready for a relationship yet.
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agreed.
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definatley

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You have a point I agree. -"Ronaldo"

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Absolutely!

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bradahh

Couldn't agree more. And if you're in a relationship and you want to cheat then it's not right for you to be in that relationship and you should end it before you cheat. If you can cheat on someone...you don't love them.

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((((((((((((((Agree 100%))))))))))))))))

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I agree but what if you're drunk and you have a one night stand? I'd understand if that happened to my gf. I'd tell her no more drinking. Other then that there's no reason

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That's still no excuse.
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Not only is that NO excuse. You cant tell your girlfriend what to do. You do not own her and you do NOT control her.
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I'd tell her what I think. She acts on her decisions. I don't own her. And I know that. You're thinking of it the wrong way
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I Agree! No doubt. Cheating is plain old flat WRONG. My parents divorced because of it. And I have seen it practically destroy a ton of other relationships!

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agree!!!!

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yes 100% they should just get out of ever bodies way and stop breaking hearts:(

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i too agree....cheating...it will snatch the beauty of relationship...be honest even with you... and if you think you like to move on after few days ...then remain single...and dont make commitment at all....

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Yes, I totally agree with you.

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Agreed

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