Well, you're taking a huge risk being sexually active at your age. There are so many diseases you can get even with a condom. Plus no birthcontrol is a 100%... do you really want a kid or some weird nasty bacteria on your private at 14?? You may be pregnant or just starting your period... Please rething the sex thing. For your futures sake... Before it's too late. :) I'm not trying to be mean but I worry about kids like you. Life won't ever be the same if you keep going like this... Let the boys love you for who you are first.
it can always be the stress that is making your period late, and the pain might be associated to period cramps. best thing is to go to an ob/gyn make an appointment cause it will be more accurate and the dr. can check you for everything, plus put you on birth control that is right for you.....cause if your not pregnant are you going to stop having sex, i dont think so.....i didnt!
WHAT 14??? That's absolutely disgusting!! Do not have sex unless your able to provide for the possibility of a baby!! How stupid & foolish!! 14 your not able to walk around certain malls on weekends or see R movies!! Having sex at 14 doesn't make you cool, it's just a gateway to sleeping with too many people, getting pregnant & being called "easy"!! Kids are so dumb today!!
My dear... Who is your biggest influence right now? Not a person of fame, but real life. And ask yourself this question- are you proud of yourself?
Children are a lifetime commitment. I am a married working woman, 27, and no children. Because i don't feel like i am responsible enough at this point. Raising a child takes encouragement, dedication, patience, authority... Amongst many other things.
Are you prepared to handle all those for the rest of your life? It doesn't end at 18, and unfortunately you will have to learn that the hard way if you continue your lifestyle.
I really don't think you guys should all be ganging up on her. She is scared and worried, I would be too. I understand you all think it is disgusting to have sex at 14, I do too. But right now she needs help not anymore harm. Personally I think you should buy a pregnancy test from a local drug store and if it say positive or you still don't get your period then tell somebody. If I were you I wouldn't to tell my mom and then fin out I told her for no reason.
At 14, honey I hope your not pregnant! I hope your cycle is changing and your period will be here soon! You should take a pregnancy test and hope it's negative, and next time practice safe sex, if your going to have sex at all! OR WAIT AWHILE!!!
I truly hope you are not pregnant - you might feel on top of the world now (acting all grown up) but if you are pregnant in 2 years (on your 16th birthday) you will feel like shit - there is nothing to be proud of
take the test and hope you got away with not being pregnant, then slow down and act your age - every period in life comes only once, you will never be a CHILD again , enjoy it whilst it lasts for goodness sakes
where the hell are your parents anyway?????????????????????
Oh my! Fourteen years of age is too young to be having to ask this. Take a pregancy test. I pray you arent! If you aren't you either need to have let this be a wake up call and stop having sex or start using protection.
Take a pregnecy test, and don't listen to all these stupid peoples ride comments, they are not answering the question you asked, there just being judgemental and mean, I'm sorry they are being so rude, the should leave you alone to do what you want, hope everything goes well:) I'm 15 and I understand.