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I am Sexually active at 14. My period is late by 5 days. And im haveing back and stomach pains, am i pregnant?

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It is a proven fact that a lot of adults, 25 years old and up want a baby so much that they would give their right arm to have one.

Then there are children age 12 to 17 that just do whatever and don't think of what to do with the baby they might have.

They are in it for the thrill of feeling older. They get pregnant and then what? Mom takes total care of the baby or it's given away like an old shirt.

You might be pregnant but, the back and stomach pains comes with mother natures plan for "girls" and women.

So,yes, I'm telling you that you are a child who may be cheated out of a childhood or a child that gets cheated out of having it's real parents.

If you think your old enough to have sex then you are old enough to know about protection.

If you don't use, then don't do it!

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dross1958
well said
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excellent
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Indeed.
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Very well said!!!!

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Nice speech (no,really)
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dross1958:, akurtula:, shellysaidso:, trevan:, Nerd_Alert017: and NoTheOtherGuy2:, Thank you all very much!
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Leave her alone! Your being a jerk, answer her question, don't judge her. Your not her mother.
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emie 1415 its not being a jerk to state simple facts if she did not want to be judge then she should not be doing those kinds of things at her age let alone put it up on a public website because people are going to express concern and opinions
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emie1415: the way I see it is, by stating these simple facts we might help encourage other teens to think responsibly and not make the same mistakes
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It's a little hard to tell. But there is always a chance of being pregnant after sex. Also they say you have butt pains. You should take pregnancy test.

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Shut up,knack,this is serious...
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How "active" are you? Did any sperm go up into your vagina? Take a pregnancy test to make sure that you're not pregnant, because 14 is a little young to have a baby. Good luck to you.

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Maybe you should go to your local pharmacy and buy an at-home pregnancy test.

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Whoa that's a little young to be doing that but i would say the best thing to do is take a pregnancy test .

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14 omg

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That's what I said too when I read it!
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I'm pretty sure I didn't even know what sex was at that age. . .
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I was still playing with my G I Joes at that age.
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Guys, she didn't ask you to judge her, she asked you if she was pregnent, so just leave her alone, she can do what she wants.
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Whoa thats what i thought to 14 holy cow your still a Baby
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Well, you're taking a huge risk being sexually active at your age. There are so many diseases you can get even with a condom. Plus no birthcontrol is a 100%... do you really want a kid or some weird nasty bacteria on your private at 14?? You may be pregnant or just starting your period... Please rething the sex thing. For your futures sake... Before it's too late. :) I'm not trying to be mean but I worry about kids like you. Life won't ever be the same if you keep going like this... Let the boys love you for who you are first.

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Great answer enough said
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Take a pregnancy test

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Why jump to the worst conclusion first. Just take a test in few days and see. And stop trying to grow up so quick. Enjoy your child hood. Cause having a baby at 14 is gonna ruin your life.

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it can always be the stress that is making your period late, and the pain might be associated to period cramps. best thing is to go to an ob/gyn make an appointment cause it will be more accurate and the dr. can check you for everything, plus put you on birth control that is right for you.....cause if your not pregnant are you going to stop having sex, i dont think so.....i didnt!

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WHAT 14??? That's absolutely disgusting!! Do not have sex unless your able to provide for the possibility of a baby!! How stupid & foolish!! 14 your not able to walk around certain malls on weekends or see R movies!! Having sex at 14 doesn't make you cool, it's just a gateway to sleeping with too many people, getting pregnant & being called "easy"!! Kids are so dumb today!!

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Thank u for not holding back, im 17, i know its stupid but im sexually active but itake all steps to be safe, ive been with my girlfrind for 2 years, before we did anything we were together for 7 months and we got tested together, she is on birthcontrol and i use a condom everytime. I see alot of kids in my school having kids and they dont know what to do, theyre dropping out n trying to sell drugs just to take care of the baby. Alot of kids my age need to hear it hard and true
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:) - I like the idea that a 17yr old (15 when he started) feels mature
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Well ive been thru way too much in life to act my age
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no matter what one has been though, they should not do what they are not supposed to
I would say that those that have been through a lot act more like an Adult - therefore THEY would know that sex at 15 is not that great - but just my opinion sorry
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I was 16, already with a car and job
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the bottom line is that anyone under 18 should not be having sex. kids have jobs starting from 11 years old (paper delivery) so your argument does not mean much (in my opinion)

also driving a car is not a big deal, the state says you can drive at 16 so we do. Nothing special there
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U no what, with all due respect, having sex doesnt make me an adult, but getting a job at the age of 12 to help my grandmother pay her rent cause shes dying of cancer makes me an adult, she raised me wen my mother left me, thats wht makes me an adult, helping my grandmother raise my little brother and make money to pay the bills at the age of 12 then watch her die wen i was 14. So cut it out with judging people if u dont know what theyve been through and what makes them who they are.
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for me (a person that has been through as much as you) that makes no difference. I am sorry to hear of your problems but that has nothing to do with having or not having sex

everyone is saying that underaged sex is not right - there is no reason to bring other problems into it - there is no excuse

I am not judging you of what you been through - I am just saing that sex at 15/16 is not right - regadless of other personal problems
again sorry for what you have been through

it happened that I replied to your comment but the formula is just the same - "if person A is under 18, they should not have sex".

BTW unfortunately the reasons why many teens have sex is because they think that having sex will make them an adult - so I agree that's not the case.

in fact nothing makes a kid an adult - I am sorry for all the problems you;ve been through and I wish you all the best
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My dear... Who is your biggest influence right now? Not a person of fame, but real life. And ask yourself this question- are you proud of yourself?

Children are a lifetime commitment. I am a married working woman, 27, and no children. Because i don't feel like i am responsible enough at this point. Raising a child takes encouragement, dedication, patience, authority... Amongst many other things.

Are you prepared to handle all those for the rest of your life? It doesn't end at 18, and unfortunately you will have to learn that the hard way if you continue your lifestyle.

Godspeed darling.

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Well writtin! And I'm only 13 but I still agree and completely understand and agree!!!
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Okay first of all.. 14!? What the heck are you thinking! Your too young! The best I can say is take a pregnancy test. Or three. And, if you can't take the consequences then DON'T do the action!

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Exactly!! Thats girl is a fluzy!
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Yes could very well be

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I really don't think you guys should all be ganging up on her. She is scared and worried, I would be too. I understand you all think it is disgusting to have sex at 14, I do too. But right now she needs help not anymore harm. Personally I think you should buy a pregnancy test from a local drug store and if it say positive or you still don't get your period then tell somebody. If I were you I wouldn't to tell my mom and then fin out I told her for no reason.

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True,it's just...wow...
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Maybe you should stop supporting a sexually active 14 year old. Kinda sad. It's people like you that make them feel it's ok and when they do have a baby they can't provide for it. Think about things before you say them. She needs to realized she is doing the wrong thing.
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She should have to deal will the consequence if she does the action. Yeah her parents are gonna kill her but she can always put the baby up for adoption. It's better that way. Then maybe someone who can't have a baby will finally be able to have one even if it's not biologically.
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Ohh btw I would tell my mom. I had to tell her the first time I has sex. She will support you if she is a good mother. Yes she will be angry but she will get over it. Think about what she will do if you are pregnant but whatever you do DON'T get an abortion..
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At 14, honey I hope your not pregnant! I hope your cycle is changing and your period will be here soon! You should take a pregnancy test and hope it's negative, and next time practice safe sex, if your going to have sex at all! OR WAIT AWHILE!!!

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A green up! Great answer!

I love butterflies and purple!
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I truly hope you are not pregnant - you might feel on top of the world now (acting all grown up) but if you are pregnant in 2 years (on your 16th birthday) you will feel like shit - there is nothing to be proud of

take the test and hope you got away with not being pregnant, then slow down and act your age - every period in life comes only once, you will never be a CHILD again , enjoy it whilst it lasts for goodness sakes

where the hell are your parents anyway?????????????????????

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Oh my! Fourteen years of age is too young to be having to ask this. Take a pregancy test. I pray you arent! If you aren't you either need to have let this be a wake up call and stop having sex or start using protection.

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Go to CVS and buy a test!

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Or three!
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Or three!
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Im in your same spot. I had sex like three days ago and i have been having bad stomach pain. Its scary. Just take a test girl! I hope the best for you!

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Take a pregnecy test, and don't listen to all these stupid peoples ride comments, they are not answering the question you asked, there just being judgemental and mean, I'm sorry they are being so rude, the should leave you alone to do what you want, hope everything goes well:) I'm 15 and I understand.

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Ok emie let me ask you something say you have a 14 yr old daughter and she decides to start having sex and ends up with an STD or being pregnant do you honestly think the rest of the world is just being mean ? NO !! they are being honest honey what she is doing is wrong it does not take a genius to figure that out although we all are scared for her and feel bad its her responsibility to deal with the consequences of her actions if shes grown enough to have sex then she is old enough to understand that .
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