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How do you deal with a husband who loves cats and you dont?

Mine is always bringing in strays and I hate cats ugh.

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COMPROMISE,thats what relationships are about,dont be selfish,im sure theres something about you he has to compromise,be understanding,cats are so cool and very fun loving creatures,just compromise,theres bigger issues in life to worry about

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I compromise on so much and the fact that I dont like cats is not bing selfish. Besides I deal and care for all the other pets he brings I just have never likes cats. Is that realy that bad? Or am I just asking for to much when I ask for no cats? I already have a dog, hamster, snake, and a mouse.
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Wow,you really do have your hands full,My ex husband had so many animals,snakes,ferrets,scorpions,lizards,i had a bird,2 dogs,a cat oh my gosh,i thought i was going 2 go crazy but,I dealt with it,thats dont mean you have 2 though,put the cat out or see if you can give it away,id take it if u lived close,i love them lol
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oh i know just kick that little rats butt out of the house but do it quietly and tell your husband " where is the cat ? Did it run away? Boo hoo!" You know what i mean and then mission accomplished

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Lol I tried but he just keeps bringing more :-(
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Have them as outdoor pets maybe. I personally like cats and own three but, they stay out a lot.

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I could deal with the cat for little bit at a time, its just these cats want to be attached to me at all times makes me feel like just ugh.
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You are taking a stance that "out "is best. In our community we have a feral cat law, where if cat is seen killing wildlife, OR off the property of the owner, its deemed "feral " taken, and disposed of. Harsh yes, but better than the destruction of the wildlife, by these "roaming "felines.
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Just make him understand that you do not like the cats around you and that he should make sure they are far from you. Request him to keep them outside if he cares about your happiness.

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My husband just has a big heart because cats are not all he brings home I have a dog, hamster, cat, mouse, and he almost got a snake. I just cant seem to deal with the cats.
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