What do you do with a war between mother and sister?
my grandfather and i are stuck in the middle of a war. we have heard both sides and we still don't know who to believe. about two months ago my sister (age 34) came down with her boyfriend, 12-year-old lab, and two kids. they stayed for about a week. everyone was spending time with her, but mom. then sunday, mom wanted to clean up some of the dog hairs and put the old lab in another room because a family friend was coming over. she told my grandfather to do something, and he just forgot to do it. mom was kinda fussing at him then my sister came and told mom that she didn't come down to clean and that there was no point. my sister left to get ready for church and while she was getting ready, mom went back in the room to "talk". it ended with my sister scared and bruised and my mother with a broken thumb.
i still want a relationship with my sister, but mom wants me to stay away from her. my mother even gets on my fb to spy on her. it's annoying and just keeps getting worse. in december i'll be 18 and i don't know what to do. any ideas?