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How do i approach a girl without making her think i just want excitement from her? i do not want her to think i am going to use her

like most guys of course

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Engage her in an activity which the two of you can enjoy together (in public!). Go to a movie, go hiking, go rock climbing, paintballing, 4-wheeling, whatever the two of you have in common. The best relationships arise out of friendship.

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You can start by gaining trust from her. Do this by being there for her, even when she is going through hard times. Learn her moods and know when she is happy. Take her out on normal occasions just to know how she is fairing. After all these, you can ask her for a date.

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dress in a gorilla suit...I personally find primates expressions hard to figure out

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Try messaging her on fb or something and slowly make small talk and put smiley faces . Ask her how her day was , what is she up to , stuff like that . And then ask for her number . And continue just to be nice , then take it from there . Try to show her your different than other guys , it'll show .

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lol well i deactivated my account :/ and i had her as a freind but maybe i should take it slow and just talk to her a little right?
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Yeeah for sure
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Pay attention to where her eyes are. Not everything else.

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Just be yourself and do things with her at a slow pace. Don't try pulling any slick moves with her or doing things like trying to get her drunk, or something like that.

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Be kind for sure. Don't be rude and make sure she understand that you truly like her.:) be you

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