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I was recently dumped by a girl who I really, really loved. Then, three days later, I heard she started liking another guy. I feel unwanted.

I feel like the other guy must be better than me. What is the truth?

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The truth is, love and relationships can be tricky. Affection and attraction can be based on rather primitive emotions that we barely consciously control. It sounds that you may be a bit more exposed in your need to have a person to "love". "Needy" people are not attractive to the opposite sex. Maximum desirability is often portrayed by people with secure family and friend relationships. Being the top dog in a group of peers..or at least a valued member, gives the best effect to the opposite sex. Work on developing some interest in work or hobby that will help give you a real sense of purpose, and a strong emotional "aura". Do not focus on another person to bring you happiness or security. Look to find someone to share your happiness with when you have the inner self assurance and value that real personal accomplishments can bring.

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No don't think nor feel that way.. Sounds like her feelings weren't as strong as before since she broke up with you and is dating someone else.. In my opinion it's good that she broke up with you and isn't leading you on.. It be worse if she'd be with both of you :/ but trust me I know how you feel -__- it sucks .!

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Ur not unwanted. It just means she wasn't the one,even if u want to think she is. And I'm REALLY sorry

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A girl dumping you and liking another guy immediately means that she didn't like you much in the first place. Her feelings towards you were not as strong has you felt about her. It would be wise to move on to someone who will appreciate you.

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Your not unwanted she's just not the right girl you deserve better

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