You are 13. -_-
wow.. why would you do that??! How old is your boyfriend?
Anyway,this might be risky taking a test, but maybe you could see if your mom has one, or if a friend has one.
Also, this might be the scariest thing ever.
I would talk to JUST your mom, a dad wouldn't understand.
And say " I think i might be preg."
Say, " _____ and i might be having a baby."
Good Luck! <3 :]
YOU ARE THIRTEEN! tell them that you are a kid and that you were VERY wrong and you have a chance of being pregnant, you can see him again, when you are married. And Pray to the Good Lord!
I don't think you can have sign if you are only a week into the pregnancy. Don't run away, it will only make things work. If you are worried, just tell your parents, there isn't a better way to tell them other than just being direct.
See a therapist.
well make SURE ur pregnant first and don't run away that will just make things worst. if u r... tell ur parents and if the baby survives...adoption.
first, you need to find out if you're pregnant, if not take this as a lesson learned. but if u are just tell them straight up. because there isn't an easier way. it is what it is.
thats why you should wait until your an adult to have sex. your just going to ruin your life by doing that. but just tell them or get a test. dont run away whatever you do.
WHY???? you are thirteen that is horrible
Unprotected, or any sex when 13yrs old is straight up nuts. In every state 13 constitutes rape of a minor. You don't have a clue about anything, keep you legs closed & watch him go to prison
well i would first take a test to be sure, so that they wont worry much ... but please no matter what he says HE HAS TO WEAR A CONDOM at all times .. if he doesnt have one oh well . never have unprotected sex, not only is it unsafe but it can get you pregnant .. be smart girl ... represent.
Well I would wait until I know for sure because my sister had a pregnancy scare she misses her period for 2-3 months and she wasn't pregnant but if you are for sure you just news to come out and say it there's nothing you can do about it (I WOULDNT CONSIDER ABORTION) and my best friend had her baby she's 14 and she's a great mother so only time will tell but don't worry things will most likely work out pregnant or not if you feel ready to be a mom be one but if your not consider adoption
Honestly make sure your pregnant first before you tell your parents. If you are pregnant you can go to planned parenthood and they can help you with telling your parents.
gross girl am thirteen and I keep my stuff in my pants not in others bodies:)
Hold on little girl. I'm 15 so I'm gonna try and make this NOT sound like a mom but your 13 ? Why are you doing that anyway ? And the easiest way is just to tell them. Plain and simple of course theyll be pissed at first but what good parent wouldn't be ? and your parents don't hate you ?they are just disappointed that's all they'll get over it. But you really should get a test first before telling them and don't runaway with a 7th grade summer love it won't last and this is harsh but you will screw up your life and not have anyone to fall back on.
Just tell them now that you might be pregnant so they can go and get you checked out. If you wait to long and dont tell them the worst the situation will become.Telling them is going to hard but you need to be strong and just admit that you were wrong to have sex and say your sorry if they dont respect that you are sorry you need to seek help from another close family member or adult you can trust. Its really sad that you cannot see your boyfriend but talking to him about this is something you need to also do after you tell your parents you should ask to see him because he will be the farther of your child.
Your 13 - He has a car and you and him got caught parking -- He is already on probation and headed to prison and you need to tell your pregnants that you had unprotected sex with Dude -- so you can be checked out and examine and your parents will take care of the rest and you listen and do what they tell you to do .
Umm....wow. Wait until you know for sure.see a doctor. Don't run away. And don't have sex at thirteen.
13 and having sex thats a no no whats the rush your still a baby, talk to your mom about this. boys are not supposed to even be in your mind gosh what is going on with kids having relations at these ages thats crazy. be a kid...
get a pregnancy test honey. if it comes up positive then get your mum alone and tell her. make sure she understands that you know the consequences, tell her you dont need someone to yell at you that just need someone to help you make a decision. if you need someone to talk to about this i can give you my email if you want.
That's...sad. Something is wrong with this generation. I'm not going to criticise, because I made mistakes too. But honey, you're too young to even be doing that, especially unprotected. You wont be able to tell you're pregnant til about a month. Do not run away, it always just makes things worse. You have to confront them. Talk to your most trusted parent privately. Tell them not to speak until youre finished, and Make sure you tell them everything. And what you get from it, don't complain, because you brought it on yourself. Honestly, sweety, he's trouble. Don't go back to him. It'll get you into more trouble in the future, trust me. If by chance you are pregnant, at your age, youre not developed enough to go through that process. Something can go terribly wrong with either the baby, or you. Please think before you do something next time. It'll save you trouble. Good luck, my heart goes out to you.
This poor girl is already going trough a hard time we all shouldn't be judging . Especially because growing most of the people who said who were going to wait didn't so for those 15 and 13 year olds bless your hearts but it's too soon to be talking , obviously this was something very disappointing and unfortunate . Yes it was tragic but you will learn a wonderful lesson from this . You will pay consequences though and will need to understand your parents as you would want your future children to because of the love parents want their child to be safe . Honestly this guy needs to go to prison even though you may love him but he did not if he did he will respect you and not take your virginity . Your still a very very young person who doesn't have concern to approve sex . There are laws protected towards you I don't know your state but make sure you get checked the laws concerning unlawful sex . Also don't jump into a conclusion you are pregnant , it may be the paranoia of the thought of being pregnant , you may encounter symptoms but it is all mind created when one thinks is pregnant such as missed period , fatigue,etc but it may just be the stress . Also if you don't want to confront your parents without creating an argument and getting your feelings across ,write them a letter of how your feeling why it happened , and ask for forgiveness and the fact that you had unprotected sex . Now since you had sex a highly recommend you to go to a gynecologist because of the high possibilities contracting an std such as herpes ,HIV etc and it's always better detecting right away than coming too late .Make a reflexion of what had happened and never ever let a guy pressure you into sex I don't care if you 20 18 13 16 40 a true man who loves you will wait for sex until marriage . P.s. don't run away
First things first. Your parents don't hate you. They feel they've failed you by not protecting you enough and they are angry with themselves. They are also showing you their anger to try and scare you into obeying them and as part of your punishment.
It actually means they love you and haven't given up on you. They're just trying something new (yelling and being scary) because the other ways they've tried didn't work. Instead of keeping secrets, let them know what's worrying you. The punishment for your mistake may not be over but they'll definitely want to help you with any problems.
Run away isn't an option. Isn't that how this all started. Your parents, don't hate you but you let them down. 13 really having sex. How old is the boy. Only way to end this you did adult actions so maybe you should do another one and start telling the truth. Facing consequences is easier you will turn 18 one day and get ungrounded.
You're thirteen, just tell you think you're pregnant from your bf and you want to take a test, simple
So sad that you have messed your life up at 13. I hope that you have learned that there is only one thing a boy wants from someone your age. Well he got it and he is on probation. Sounds like a loser and you need to leave him alone. Big mistake to have unprotected sex, let alone to have sex at 13! If your not pregnant, don't have sex again. Your body isn't ready to have a baby at 13. Did you know that he can get into big trouble if he is over 16. Wait a while and take a test. If you are, then tell your parents. Hey you thought you were big enough to have sex, now be a big girl and tell your parents. if you run away, it will get worse and some boy isn't worth it.
OMG WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU DO THAT????? Now the guy you wanna prolly spend your whole life with just took YOUR CHILDHOOD FORVEVER!!! Im soo sorry may peace be with you!
wtf were u thinking???????? like forreals if this is a joke its not funny at AALLLL.. if not and u really did do it with a dude at age 13 than thats pretty disgusting if u think about it and if u r pregnant u could possibly die from giving birth to ur child so lets pray that u arent pregnant and dont do that ever AGAIN
First- ignore the people that are yelling at you on this post. Mistakes happen and you need to forgive yourself. Sorry- but he sounds like trouble and you deserve better. DO NOT run away with him. It will only make things worse! - Of course your parents were furious.They only want what is best for you .They don't hate you. They're concerned because they love you. You need to get on birth control ASAP.! You can't always trust condoms OR the guy, right? IF you are pregnant-and I hope you're not, your third option is to PLEASE consider having an abortion. You are too young to raise a baby (it's VERY hard) and would be worrying about your baby forever if he were adopted, as my friend did. It ruined her life. An abortion is over in an hour and you can continue your dream life...college, marriage, etc. Your parents will calm down. Now is the time to try to talk to them calmly (no tantrums). I was scared of my parents too but found out they were there for me when I needed them most. Your letter is intelligently written so you are obviously a smart girl, so be smart, listen to good advice, get on birth control and know that your parents love you. I wish you well.
Im not going to judge you, but I'm glad you know it was a horrible thing to do. I'm a year older than you and I have a boyfriend, but I would never do that with him. There is no easy way to tell your parents, but it's good to just come out and say it and not keep holding it off. Don't run away they'll take it as if you didn't love them and didn't trust them. You may not trust them now, and they may not trust you now, but they are your parents and they will hel you through any mistake that you make in life. :) you don't want to hold it off and have them find out another way... YOU'RE 13!!!! I'm sorry, but I cannot believe someone so young would do something like that. People are getting younger and younger now...
Yeah you are 13, but you're human and there isn't anything wrong with that. You have feelings, just like everybody else. My advice? DO NOT run away with him, that will just freak your parents out. But before I continue, I have two questions. Have you told this guy? And did you take a pregnancy test?
hon, im 13 too. i may have a bf but tell your parents. you cant run away and hide it forever. theyre parents they are supposed to get mad at you for your actions. tell them the truth. you can never hide it. if you tell them it shows your strong but if you hide in the corner it shows your weak. do you want to be strong or weak? they love you and are scared. try being a parent who has a 13 year old daughter who ran away with her bf and may be pregnant
Just tell them the truth you can't run away to hide your problems!
First thing: guys i think she relises what she did and she didnt ask for opions. Second thing you just need to tell your parents strait up that you think your pregnant.
Take a test ASAP before the baby is in you . If you end up having it stop having sex
no dont run away the best thing is to be honest with your parents and tell them dont run away that will not solve anything and you could get hurt the best place for you to be is at ur parents house they will be there to help you out have you gone to do a pregancy test yet if not then do so but just be honest with them thats all you can do we all learn from our mistakes and im sure you have learned from urs whats done is done its how you deal with it now so tell them they need to know ok
i was 13 when i lost my virginity, now im 29. ur life would be less complicated if u are not pregnant, but it is what it is. u need to filter through these messages and take only what is useful to u. all this crap on here is ridiculous. i would talk to the parent or trusted adult who u know loves u about your concerns and go to planned parenthood to check to see if you're pregnant.wait about 4-5weeks though or they won't be able to tell. but they will try to push the abortion thing on u. which i am dead set against doing, in any circumstance. i was lucky enough to be born into a family who supports me in whatever i do. don't take this the wrong way but hopefully, u aren't pregnant. not saying u would be a bad mom, or that u couldn't take care of a baby, just that u can do so much more for yourself by yourself. like i said im 29, married with 2 beautiful children, ages 2 and 5, wouldn't trade them for the world, but i felt i had to quit college to take care of my 5 year old when he was born. i was about 6 classes away from having my associates degree.bad timing can screw up a lot. if u want to talk hon, let me know and i will send u my email. wish u nothing but the best.
Im 20 and i got pregnant at 18, still living under my mothers roof.. Well I loved this boy was with him for five years. I told my mom that i was going to have a baby but i made sure i was in fact pregnant. What u should do is make sure that u are. dont be quick to run away with him considering ur still only 13. talk to ur parents if u are they are still ur parents they may be disappointed in u but they will always love u. my mom helped me. my son is two now and he is a handful. just because this boy tells u he loves u and promises he will be there for both u and the baby if u in deed are pregnant doesnt mean he will he is young.living with ur parents maybe different but its better then struggling to make sure u can provide for ur self and the baby, remember nine times outta ten its best to live with family who loves u thru anything u decide to do, then to move out with someone who could walk out on u two at any given moment. If u decide to give it up that's ur decision. please make sure u take all this into consideration before making any dramatic changes to ur life. and if ur not next time protect ur self cuz no boy is worried about ur safety besides ur dad.
The easiest way to tell them is to break it to them slowly, don't get an abortion. I believe abortions should be illegal, its wrong to kill your baby, if you did it you should keep it.
The best way is to to take pregnancy test or go to a friend and talk about it and figure out ways that you can find out if your pregnant
the same way you find the guts to went out and have sex the same way you can tell your parents that you might be pregnant
trust me this has happened to someone i know it is understandable i just turned 14 on July 7. just go to your mom tell her there is a chance that you are pregnant don't tell your dad he most likely would not take it as well as your mom. other than your mom don't tell anyone they they will tell someone and a crazy story will reach your dad. if u r try and keep anyone out of the family to know till you and only u make the choice to keep her/him
First, get a pregnancy test. Some can let you know if you're pregnant within a few days of conception, so look for one that's early detection. And if you are pregnant, your parents will be mad, but they need to know, so just be honest. A baby is not something you can hide or take lightly, as I'm sure you know. I admire you for wanting to carry it and either keep it or give it up for adoption. Abortion is killing IMO. You do not want to run away from home either, especially pregnant. Two young teens on the run is a recipe for disaster. What would you do for work or how would you find a place to live? You will need medical care, a roof over your head, food. It is definitely not a good plan.
Well maybe, instead of flipping out on her try and understand, Im sure all of you were kids at once. AND Im pretty sure the girl knows shes only 13 .. no need for repetition. Everyone makes freaking mistakes. All she can do is hope to god she isnt and if she is take it from there.
you should get a pregnancy test first and if it comes out positive get your mom alone and tell her
tabby maybe u might not be pregnant i am a doctor so i would need detail to help u out.
i can email u if u wana chat privately on this subject. don't worry there are ways of getting out this mess without telling ur parents. my address spaceman792004 at yahoo
mistakes are made god knows im not perfect and neither are you guys so give her a break don't you think she is beating herself up enough!!!!! and the guy was older dont you think she was scared he was going to leave her!!! this is not that big of deal you guys have no and i mean NO right to judge her so back off!!!
mistakes happen.. just go for a test first and see if you are and if so then it will come around when they will know.. next time please wait till your married :/
you're parents are just worried tell them that you are terrified and feel horrible tell them you never want to see that boy again and if you see him you need to talk to him. take him to you're house and you and you're parents all have a talk
First thing i would do is walk down to a local store and get a pregnancy test t even find out if your pregnant, then if it is positive TELL YOUR PARENTS, then your boyfriend, i know it seems stupid and it may seem like your parents hate you but i promise you they don't. they are probably pissed off but they dont hate you, and i can say that from experience. im sorry youre going through that but i know you can get through this.
13 year old girl who had smex and fears she pregnant, Y U SO STUPID?!
I don't think telling her she is wrong and shouldn't of had sex and calling her stupid is going to help anything. !! Leave her alone. I think by now she knows she was wrong. She's just trying to find a way to deal with it. She's scared and feels alone. I think the best thing you can do is see if you are pregnant first. If you are then the only thing you can do is tell your parents. At first they might be a little upset but honestly they're your parents and will love you through anything. They will be understanding after a while. Don't leave home because then you will really be on your own. You're parents could never hate you they just may be a little upset. But you can do this. Don't let anyone put you down you are young and naive and just have learning to do! But everything is going to be okay!
Wow...you made a horrible decision. I'm about your age and I'm not even planning on dating for another year or two. I'm not even considering doing what you've done until after I'm married. And if you are pregnant and your parents refuse to help you out, seek out a guidance counselor or friend. I think you know you've done something wrong, and if you have, good for you.
My question is do you not know the type of STDs there are in this world? Also, if he came inside of you then you can be pregnant but you would have to buy a pregnancy test or go to Planned Parent Hood and ask for a pregnancy test. If you are consider adoption i know it would be hard but you're only 13 and having a kid at your age will ruin your life and also how long have you dated this boy? How old is he? Now, i made a mistake like that when i was young i was a year younger then you but i was with him for 2 1/2 years and he was the love of my life and i got pregnant but i lost my twins due to a situation. But, your parents don't hate you they are however disappointed in you. But, if anything don't ever have unprotected sex again there are a lot of STDs now in the world and you don't want to risk you getting any. But, like i said wait a few months and buy a pregnancy test or go to Planned Parent Hood, or you can talk to your mom and let her take you to a gynecologist. The best thing to do is talk to your mom. Mothers know best. But, be safe and let me know if anything else you need advice with. If you didn't go through your changes yet of getting you period you can't get pregnant.
you must talk to your family slowly and then you must call ur bf to home and u can do this easily
i know all of these people are beating you up. but listen, i know your scared, and you fear your life is over, and you still love this guy. i understand. but sweet love, i have to tell you that if you ARE preg, that you have to deal with the consequences. i know you dont like hearing it. you shouldve been thinking. :(
I know as hard as it may seem. You need to stop seeing him and listen to your parents. Remember, parents were 13 one time too and parents do understand, it's kids that don't understand the parents. Don't run away, don't abort the child. Just tell your parents and try to start over. It's tough to be a kid but don't rush to be an adult, problems only get bigger the older you get. Enjoy being a kid before it's too late!. There are certain choices we make and consequences for those choices; bad choices can be made right by making good choices after. I know you think things are bad but if you don't listen to your parents things will get a lot worse. They love you and want what is best for you.
Step one: Find out if your pregnant
Step two: Tell the boy
Step three: (if not pregnant): Tell him, "No glove, no love"
Step three: (If pregnant): Contact or tell an adult that you are comfortable with, even if it's not your parents, I know what your feeling and no matter how many times people bash you about 'Keep your legs closed" blah blah blah, the fact is... it happened and them bashing you won't help your situation. FIND AN ADULT that you are comfortable with and have them help you into telling your parents. Trust me, It's NOT easy going through a pregnancy and making decisions on your own. E-mail me: Crissykat95@yahoo.com I WILL HELP YOU. Please don't do it alone, it will be the worst mistake of your life. I know, because it was for me.
I'm not going to judge as everyone else shouldn't who answers. It was a mistake, though a pretty bad one.
How old is your 'boyfriend'? If he was over 18 (17 in many states) it can be considered as rape. Since he took you V card, you may feel attached to him. Unless you can see yourself raising a child with him (even if you aren't pregnant), growing old with him, and taking care of yourselves the whole time then I would advise you to stay away from him.
Though, if you truly do love him, take a pregnancy test. Even if that test you take is negative go to a local place like Planned Parenthood and take another one. Get tested there for STDs - even if he says he doesn't have any (there are some STDs that can be unnoticed).
Then tell your parents and/or anyone else who you think will help you through this and needs to know. They SHOULD understand, and if they don't explain to them how you feel and how you want to be treated.
If you want more help you can text me (757) 969-0292 or email me at missyn1452@gmail.com. I just had a baby and I'm 16. I know how you must feel so if there's anything else I can do to help then let me know.
You need to do the right thing and tell them. They'll help you get the help you need but the fact that you are 13 and had sex is not a good thing. You're too young for that. You may think you were ready but sweety you're 13! Let this be a lesson to you. You are not prepared to take care of another human being and you are not ready to have that kind of relationship. Do what you need to do to make sure you are taken care of as far as your pregnancy (whether it be a pregnancy or not) goes but you shouldn't have that kind of relationship until you are AT THE LEAST in college. I don't judge you. I just hope you learned your lesson.
You are not ready for sex...not just your age...but you are not educated and really understand the problems you could have with unprotected sex. If you were more mature you would know that a woman has "emotional" sex and unfortunately a young man wants sex for other reasons. When you do have sex...a woman should think about her future first, the financial burden at your ages, and giving up your young womanhood before having unprotected sex...all with a guy who is on probation? Use your head before he uses you again. Fantasize about your future and how to someday give your kids the best education. If you were my daughter I would be furious...you owe them a very sincere apology for putting yourself and them in this difficult position. If you are pregnant...who is paying...you or them? Think with your legs CLOSED.
i am also 13 and for starters your parents dont hate you they are just really mad. i think that you should tell them every thing they can help. they can come up with something. btw did you take the p. test you may not have a child
take this as a lesson and keep your legs closed. what you did is pure stupidity. the only thing you can do is act like an adult and tell your parents straight up. the worst thing you can do is run, that would just be childish. i hope you arent pregnant because judging from what you wrote you sound extremely childish, pretty nieve and would be a bad parent not to mention you are way too young to have that kind of responsibility. hopefully you at least learn from your stupidity.
first thing is first; you're an idiot, but i think you should tell your mom-but not your dad;men never understand. If i were you, i would tell mother and then wait for the baby to come. It may be scary at first, but after you finish delivering, keep it; if you don't, you will regret it. And by the way, tell it to your mom before posting it online where millions of people can see it. And by the way, have faith! If strangers online are there for you-many nice people out there-then your family will be there too! Faith!
Although you are 13yrs old you will have to sit down with the one parent that you feel the most comfortable with and tell them that you may be pregnant but you are not sure and that you are thinking about keeping it if you are and that you know that they may disappointed in for making this bad choice but it is the situation you are in and wish that they(parents will support you) in this time of need and use "i feel statements " and not "you" statements which will put your parents on the defensive side I just went through this with my step-daughter and i helped her tell her parents that she had this problem and needed to talked to them.
Turn to God. he can help you through anything. :)
call mtv because u should rly have a show 13 and pregnant
Im 13 too, dont be worried yet wait a couple of months until you possitily know that you are sure that you are pregnet, you will know from the side effects, now all you gotta do is wait , good luck.
Sex at 13? Wow. Just wow. The farthest I've gone with my girl is quite a bit of kissing. I'm a year older than you. What made you think that was a good idea? Just watch for your period. Its dangerous to have a baby that young, very dangerous, so I would consider abortion if I were you..
You are thirteen. Jesus. What happened to good kids these days?!? Anyways, if that boy was brave enough to take your virginity, then he doesn't deserve you, anyways, you should stay away from him. He sounds like a bad influence (obviously), and he is bad news. Tell your parents the possibility and note any pregnancy symptoms, like missed periods, morning sickness, etc. IF you are pregnant, do what you feel is right. Aborting the baby is just like murdering it. It put you through more pain than delivery, and it make you really sore. Just carry it full term, and then put it up for adoption. Do what YOU feel is right. Here is a few websites that may help you: http://amipregnant.com
http://unplannedpregnancy.com
Good luck.
Thirteen... are you kidding? All he wanted was a piece of tail! If he cared for you or respected you, he would treat you different. Listen to your parents! They are not as stupid as you think. It is amazing how stupid my daughter thought I was, it seems the older she gets, dad is not so stupid after all. Use your head and think!!!!
You really should've waited till you were 21
Hi. I don't know if you've made a decision or are even pregnant, but if you are. I suggest you keep the baby. Now i understand if you can't give the baby a good home or be a good mother, but just understand that you may never see your child again, under certain circumstances, and no matter what you feel, the child will never be yours again once you sign the papers. You will always have a bond with the child because you carried it for 9 months and gave life to it.
i said to my parents,i pregnant and i love him.
