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MuffinValli: 1 year ago via iPhone

How can I get over someone making fun of me?

I've tried so hard but I can't. he made me cry and so much more. first off, I made a harmless joke with my Friend about a little light skinned baby she was holding in a picture, and I even told her it was a joke. then her cousin saw it, he took it offensive and called me a b**ch and he told me that the baby was his sister. I replied a happy face, being funny, then he called me more hurtful names. he doesn't even know who I am, I didn't even know him either- so i told him to calm down, told him it was a joke between me and my friend, he simple freaked out on me, and he was just very unreasonable. so me and him kept making fun of each other, after my many failed attempts to make him be quiet, and then after an hour, I apologized because I got tired of him. and THEN! My friend cussed me out even if I tried apologizing for a million times. after a day she started talking to me again and said she was over it, but even if I said I was sorry to my friends cousin and her, I don't mean it. I can't get over his mean comments and just knowing he made me cry, I want to just kill him. not litterally but just make him speechless to what is really on my mind. this happened 3 days ago, and he's on facebook, I blocked him, I probably won't ever see or hear from him again, but I can't get over his comments even if I had a great day yesterday and today. I just can't get over it can anyone help me or tell me what's wrong with me? thanks for people who answer seriously :)

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I've tried so hard but I can't. he made me cry and so much more. first off, I made a harmless joke with my Friend about a little light skinned baby she was holding in a picture, and I even told her it was a joke. then her cousin saw it, he took it offensive and called me a b**ch and he told me that the baby was his sister. I replied a happy face, being funny, then he called me more hurtful names. he doesn't even know who I am, I didn't even know him either- so i told him to calm down, told him it was a joke between me and my friend, he simple freaked out on me, and he was just very unreasonable. so me and him kept making fun of each other, after my many failed attempts to make him be quiet, and then after an hour, I apologized because I got tired of him. and THEN! My friend cussed me out even if I tried apologizing for a million times. after a day she started talking to me again and said she was over it, but even if I said I was sorry to my friends cousin and her, I don't mean it. I can't get over his mean comments and just knowing he made me cry, I want to just kill him. not litterally but just make him speechless to what is really on my mind. this happened 3 days ago, and he's on facebook, I blocked him, I probably won't ever see or hear from him again, but I can't get over his comments even if I had a great day yesterday and today. I just can't get over it can anyone help me or tell me what's wrong with me? thanks for people who answer seriously :)

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ashley6198: 1 year ago

Ive been in this situation and the best thing to do is hang out with friends and talk to them about it and just surround yourself with people that you like then if you still feel bad after a few days tell the guy or your friend how youve been feeling and see what they say and how they feel.

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SheDevil: 1 year ago via iPhone

U feel bad morally for a simple joke. Both things u did and feel are HUMAN. Dont let this lil thing from the past torment ur present and tarnish ur future. Screw that douche if he can't take a joke. U apologized sincerely, ur friend forgave u right? That's all that matters

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MuffinValli: 1 year ago via iPhone

Ur right, thanks :))

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roxy4194JB: 1 year ago

Just don't even think about it.. Just have fun and try to get over it. U barely even know da person who made those stupid mean comments.. And trust me, he was probably joking.. He was just making things up tht weren't even true probs just to seem cool with " good " comebacks that he didn't even know hurt u and werent true. Don't think about it and just have fun and enjoy urself :) hope u get better

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MuffinValli: 1 year ago via iPhone

Thanks I'll try :)

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JeffM: 1 year ago

The most important thing is to cut off any communication; and that you did. Try as much to ignore his comment; don't let them bother you at all. Visit http://www.ehow.com/how_2111466_get-over-someone.html for more information.

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MuffinValli: 1 year ago via iPhone

Thanks I'll check that out ^,^

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MuffinValli: 1 year ago via iPhone

Well I visited the link, and it's about getting over someone, "you know." I don't know that guy I repeat alot ^,^ he doesn't have my number I don't have his, I don't know one thing about him. But thanks anyways.

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emmagirl12345: 1 year ago

If you apologized said it was a joke and he's still doing mean things to you he's not a true friend

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MuffinValli: 1 year ago via iPhone

He's not my friend I don't even know him.

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top40gordy: 10 months ago

I've learned in my own therapy and experience that I tend to look to others to validate myself. That means that instead of using my own self-esteem, experience, and faith to assure myself of my worth, I tend to gauge how I feel about myself by how my relationships feel - or how others are reacting to me at the time. This might be what's happening with you, although I do not know. It takes time and patience to see our own flaws, and even more time, prayer, and help from others to begin the healing process. You seem to be a genuinely good-hearted person. That may include a tender heart, as well. Your feelings were hurt... ARE hurt... because you are so open to others.

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top40gordy: 10 months ago

The challenge you face is being able to reach out to others, but still reserve a little something to protect MuffinValli. Don't allow others to have that power over you. I agree with other posters here. He probably doesn't even remember the incident, but you are giving him power by ruminating (even meditating) on all the meanness and negative energy he spat in your face. You are a precious, beautiful, and irreplaceable soul in a big universe filled with beautiful things. Don't let that person's ugliness destroy the unique and special person you are, MuffinValli. If you need help, talk to your family's faith leaders, a family member, your doctor, a mentor, or a counselor. Don't let that person's hatefulness bug you any more. I hope you can read this later and realize that you had forgotten all about the mean jerk who sent you flames on FB for no reason!
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