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Strange that my girlfriend said this?

Weve ben arguing alot the past week. I have some mood problems but shes ben very emotional lately as well. Complaining about things she didnt in the past. She just started a new job recently. The other night she says that something needs to be done about our relationship because all we do is argue so i ask if shes thinking about another guy or something. And for an answer i get a brief response of, "im just saying we argue too much" why would she avoid the answer? Do i have a right to be suspicious? Shes acting nice now, but after having a bad week she suggests something needs to be done? I Dont get that.

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In my opinion, you need to take it as it is. Don't over think the answer. If you love her, work on the relationship and the rest doesn't matter. If you have to know something about her, it will eventually come out. Make sure you are trying to make it work and don't focus on her liking someone else.

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I think you do not need to be worried but if u r then sit down and talk with her

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She means that by 'something needs to be done', she means that you need to sit and talk to her and plan out how to make your relationship better.

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You do have the right to be suspicious, but just like Norah said. If you love her, you will work it out. :) I'm sure she just had a bad week with the new job and maybe she was over analyzing things there, but I'm sure both of you will live happy ever after and ride off in the sunset one day :)

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You are obsessing about what might be (another relationship starting), ignoring what is (a need to work on your relationship) and in doing so; will get what might be (she will move on).

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If you love her do everything you can to fix your relationship. Suck it up and don't argue for a while.let her find her feet.give her room to breathe ....and ,I quote "hold on loosely"

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Your girlfriend obviously want things to change for the better in your relationship and since she's starting a new job she's most likely stressed out about it and is moody for that reason . Don't worry about other guys in the picture

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