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I get hit on all the time by guys but I just dont see what they see. I think im ok looking.

My friends tell me I shouldnt feel like that about myself but I do. I dont think I have low self esteem but others think I do. I like to dress sexy but keep it classy & I like to show skin but not too much. Im always being told I have great style but I just dont see it. I dont like to brag about how I look or the things I have so is that wrong of me to do? Do you all think I have low self esteem?

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"I think im ok looking."

Well at least you're not stuck-up, so that's cool. (Just don't ever become one of those pretty girls who begs for confirmation).

The Beautiful Mrs.737 is the same way, smokin' hot, but she has no idea how gorgeous she is, she thinks she's just ok.

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Your right, im not stuck up. Thanks for your advice
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If u don't like that then just stop showing too much skin cuz I can tell that u show a lot of ur skin

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I never said I didnt like it. As I told another responder, I was in my bikini top & some jean shorts about to go to the beach in that pic. Im not old fashion but I do dress sexy but classy. Dont judge a book by its cover.
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Maybe u should try another style I mean there's nothing wrong with tryin new things and I'm srry I didn't mean to be mean or anything
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Its okay I forgive you. I do try different styles but no matter what I wear, I just dont feel attractive as other people see me. I always kind of considered myself to be nerdy,weird but true. I was always told that in highschool I used to get bullied alot as a teen, so maybe thats why I view myself the way that I do. Thanks for the advice.
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I do think that you do have love self esteem. It might not be too low for you to hate yourself but its low. When people see the good qualities you have but you can't see them they your self esteem isn't where it should be. You should talk to a counselor because your self esteem could go lower, which isn't good.

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Ok, The fact you are dressing sexy says you want attention. That is a sign of low self esteem. You need to think about what your friends are saying. Yo have great style. Do you think your friends have bad taste? Do you think your friends would lie to you? If you answered no to both those questions than you have style. Accept it.

As for not bragging that is great! I hate people who brag. People who brag have exceptionally low self esteem.

My guess is someone in your life has made you feel like you are are not worthy of something. Guess what? If that is true it is they who are not worthy of you! People like that are bullies who have low self esteem and to make themselves feel better they put down others. So stand tall and proud you have friends who care for you and from what I can tell from that little picture you have a lot going for you. Now cut back a bit on showing the skin so people will also notice that you have a brain.

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Well I dont dress sexy all the time, to me if its cute ill wear it. That pic I was in my bikini top & shorts on my way to the beach. I can see how u tought otherwise. But thanks for the advice.
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Sounds like you do. Are you a more "introverted" person when it comes to crowds or when meeting new people?

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It does sound like you have low self esteem. And as cliché as this may sound i personally think you should try focusing on what you are good at and not what you look like. A good friend got me to do this and i eventually got to the point where I am proud of myself. not for what I look like but for what iv accomplished. As for looks beauty IS in the eye of the beholder and noone has exactly the same taste. Now it sounds like you have an eye for fashion maby you should look into getting into fashion design.

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