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What should a wife do when a husband works so hard with 3 kids and has a job when he comes home?

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Show him how much you appreciate his hard work ... if ya know what I mean :-)

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i know sista
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eliciamarie
heh heh :)
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I'm the Sista's hubby haha :-)
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hahahha :)
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so are u together
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bow chicka bow wow
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Be a good wife.. *sigh* This should be common sense already.

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i am but what are some things to do
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Cook, clean the house, take care of kids and guide them to become proud and productive community members
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did that already do it every day
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lapp dance..
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lol maybe...
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Then you don't need to do anything else :) if he has problems, then let him have problems. It's not always your fault.
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give him time to unwind before you give him all the details of how stressed your day was. a simple hug goes along way.

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okay what else
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The time to unwind is huge. Everybody knows that taking care of kids and housework isn't easy, but he has these two jobs so that you and the kids won't want for anything.
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he is my soul mate......*sigh*
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tell him to take it easy and maybe the wife could do something with the kids and let the father have its nice day alone

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cook him an amazing meal.. guys love it and they brag to their friends about it..

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Let him relax and cool down, then ask him how work was. Then after about 15 minutes, make out with him, or have it with him.

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thats a plan...
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love him, show him the goods when he get's home.

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Have dinner for him some nights, and have the house clean most nights. As long as you don't work as well, then those things are expected as a stay at home mom.

If you work, then just show him you care with regular s3x and a clean bedroom :)

~Ninja Jackie-san

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If you have been married long enough to have 3 kids why are you just NOW wanting to know what to do?? Is it that your husband has just recently decided to work hard?? Seems to me you should have figured ALL of this out a long time ago. Then again, I realize who asked the question.

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i had my twins when i was 18 and i adopted a girl this year
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You said 8 days ago you just delivered twins. You can't seem to keep your lies straight....
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no i didnt
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crack me up! lol
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This girl is INSANE.
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no im not u guys are bsin
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yeah the history does clearly show you said you just had the twins
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Be a good wife and when he comes home ask him if he needs anything.

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Best advice I can give you is to let him get in the door before you or the kids start in with him. I've had guy roommates and live with my girlfriend now. I leave the house around 6am and don't get home until around 9pm I think the guy roommates caught on real quick, but I had to tell my girlfriend. Let me get in the door, take a shower, and maybe pour a drink. Then we can talk about the day or whatever needs discussed. After 13 hours and work, and the hour commute is still stressful, you just need a minute to breathe.

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That's the worst, as soon as you walk in the door "NAG NAG NAG NAG NAG"
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That's why I ove my job, I have a 90 minute drive home, plenty of time to decompress, blasting my stereo for the entire drive.

By the time I get home everybody is asleep, it's wonderful :-)
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I always remember the Chris Rock line from his stand up. "It's not that you women talk too much, It's that you talk to much the minute we get in the door. NAG NAG NAG. Let me get my other foot in the door. No shut up and get me my big piece of chicken." Or something like that.
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Mmmm chicken! That's a good way to keep a marriage happy!
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You really need to keep your lies straight. 2 weeks ago you gave birth to twins. 3 days before that you said you were pregnant but had a really flat stomach. And you just answered someone's comment now that you adopted twins when you were 18. Don't you have a real life??

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Candybar the super slueth! hahaha! :-) Nice work, as always!
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Green because u do your homework (and have the coolist name). With that i'm following u
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no im not a lie i swear some one hacked me would i be telling lies if i said my husband works at Hobby Lobby in New York
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Jim, she always cracks the case! haha
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Good work again Candy.
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Super sleuth!
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Thanks guys! Just look at all her questions! This girl wouldn't know the truth if it bit her in the face!!
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R we talking ZOMBIES?
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That's a possibility!!
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I heard this joke in HS 50 years ago: slide down the banister to warm up his supper

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its not a joke.....
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Ha! Good one! ... I had to think about for a second there hahaha :-)
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Hey Tony, i'm from NJ too, but moved out in '66. I was closer to NYC
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consider yourself lucky. not all mothers have a man that will work for them and pay the bills.

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What my mom does is she has food ready and his pjs out so he can eat then go to bed and when he walks in the door I yell DADDY!!! How was your day!! So have your kids say that that ushally makes him in a better mood and feel happy

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